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It's not really hypocritical when people don't recognize that their feelings may change towards a person over time. The act of falling in love and loving someone long term are completely different. The first is steered by hormones. The second is steered by logic, friendship, and recognizing compatibility. For some, love deepens over time. For others, after the passion fades away, there's really nothing to hold onto.