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Someone here who considers themselves solo polyamorous?

I want love and sex, not the relationship.
Tbh, I came across that expression only yesterday and although I'm all against labelling myself, this made me think:
"With dating, there is often an end goal of finding a partner and getting married. At least, this is the automatic assumption people make. In solo polyamory (at least my version), the purpose of dating is to connect with people however we connect – as friends, lovers, intellectuals, activity buddies. There isn’t an end goal of marriage, which allows the connection to happen where it does, and for the relationship to unfold as it wants to – not how we are forcing it to."
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/solo-polyamory-isnt-just-dating/
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SweetSexySavage1 · 46-50, T
This is what I'm struggling with now. Me and my hubby have been polya for years, but I think I'm leaning more towards the solo polya side. I feel suffocated, but I want to stay in a relationship with him and love him dearly. I just don't want to live with anyone. If that makes sense. I've always been a solitary person, when it comes to my home space.
I feel you. ;) Any plans on talking to him or still struggling?
SweetSexySavage1 · 46-50, T
@LunaInvicta: He responds by yelling every time I bring it up.