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Would it be weird for a woman to say yes when a teenage boy asks her out on a date?

4meAndyou · F
If the boy is 17 and lives in the USA, your sister might be accused of pedophilia if the boys parents disapprove.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@4meAndyou they actually approve
4meAndyou · F
@WendyLopez43 In law, unless you live in the state of California, it is illegal for a minor to have sex with an older person, so she would have to behave like a nun if she decides to date him.
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
Weird no - legal?...that's the question.....
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
@WendyLopez43 Well - it depends...if he's mature and your both comfortable, etc..and you don't care about the stigma and all that...sure, why not? Make sure he pays though!...if he pulls out some velcro wallet and his high school id falls out, that's not exactly smooth....
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@luctoretemergo my sister got asked out by a 17 year old and said yes
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@WendyLopez43 You know, I really don't see a problem with it.
Rambler · M
Depends how old she is and how old he is
smiler2012 · 56-60
wendylopez43 depends on the age difference i guess
It's fine as long as it's legal.
Not for me to judge.
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
Not at all !
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
SW-User
The age of legal consent (which is sometimes 16 or 17, but is generally 18) in the area of residence rules supreme.

IOW, if it's legal, then no, it's not weird.
Tracos · 51-55, M
consider the creep test...

oldest age /2 + 7 sounds like a good minimum age
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Depends on how old she is.
SW-User
@WendyLopez43 20 isn’t a teenager
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@SW-User I'm aware
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@WendyLopez43 Also depends on how old he is. If he's 18, then sure, no problem. If he's 14, that's a different issue.
BigImo · 22-25, F
How old are the two people
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@BigImo 20 and 17
BigImo · 22-25, F
@WendyLopez43 give it a year then it'd be better
Eternity · 26-30, M
Pedophilia is okay when women are the perpetrators.
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
Why would it be wierd... If the the lad is 19...19...and like some of them are today built like brick outhouses... Lol @WendyLopez43
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@braveheart21 My sister is 20 and was asked out by a 17 year old
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
Is that so bad... Three years... @WendyLopez43
REMsleep · 41-45, F
If the age gap is just a few years then its not bad but it might still be illegal if the boy is under 18.
Also it is pretty common for younger women to date older men because since in traditional relationships the man is the " protector, provider, leader" thats why women don't tend to go for younger men because they dont have anything including experience but plenty have done it before.
I never met a teen boy that was ready to have a long term relationship. She might want to think of what she wants in a partner. Even if hes cute and nice he might not be truly ready for a partner that is an adult.

When I was 27 I got with a 21 year old and I felt kinda weird for the first few years. Today he is my husband.
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REMsleep · 41-45, F
@swirlie Are you saying that its ok for a 20 year old woman to date a 13year old boy socially as long as they do not have sex? Certainly not.
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