I don't know why other boys do the things they do in relationships.

I have said this before but a lot of their behavior I would condemn. The other part is I don't really understand why some men are emotionally unavailable. I spent a good chunk of today opening up to a girl I don't even know all that well...

I am very open about my feelings. VERY much so. I think that's one of the things I kind of stress, if you want a guy that will tell you exactly where you stand and be emotionally communicative look no further.

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grayhalo · 41-45, M

Men are not taught to handle felling. "Don't cry." "You have to be strong." "Be a man." Men are taught to be stoic. Emotions are for girls. Vulnerability in a man is a weakness. Ect. Men have to stuff their emotions deep down and forget about them. Of course this causes these feelings to express themselves in unhealthy and destructive ways. It doesn't account for bad all male behavior, but it explains some. And some women unfortunately see vulnerability in men as a weakness.

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

@grayhalo My response to that is that there are other women out there, Avoid the ones who do.

grayhalo · 41-45, M

@BetweenKittensandRiots I have. I've kept way to much stuff bottled up. I don't fell like doing it anymore. Of course I choose carefully what I share with who.

Paliglass · 41-45, F

What happened to your girlfriend

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