Describe my gf's figure 🤔

@booboo thanks for the BA.. there's no feeling on earth better than embracing your loved one.. and they you...

@Emele
Well, thanks, but I am concerned that *you* don't see your gf's increase as "huge" because it is an inexact term, subject to each individual's interpretation.

Anything [i]subjective[/i] is prone to differences, error, our own viewpoints. That's why [i]objective[/i] measures are crucial.

Since you seem to be ok with being "overweight" yourself, it isn't surprising that you see it as not a problem for your gf.

I don't know how she can't be obese with that much extra mass...maybe she is really tall.

But those numbers, the BMIs, are at least objective guides.

You are both shortening your lives and headed towards worse health outcomes as you age. Even if you don't care about yourself, do you want to send your gf to an early grave simply because you like her approaching manatee size?

This is your lives...and now, as early as possible, is the time to make a difference.

Please think about this and look up the health outcomes for high-BMI people. 😣😢

@SomeMichGuy Well she is 5'7, I am 5'6 and we are 396lbs between us, I will leave it at that 😅
She is definitely not approaching 'manatee size'either.

@Emele Ok. You might want to check this out:

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@kayoshin I don't know if she is literally actually overweight but that's accurate I'd say. She has always been thin 'naturally' so not toned. We have been off work and at home together for a while since the virus and she has gained a bit. I have told her that she's gotten chubby and she is denying it 😄

@Emele no use denying the obvious. Denial only makes things worse and when you do see the reality things are only harder to fix. Must not confuse positive body image with lazyness. It's not a health condition it's just being stuck doing nothing for a long time, the responsible thing to do is to start getting in the shape she was also probably worth checking cholesterol levels if she's over 30.

@Emele shes got Curves

@Emele awwwww, thank you, I just really liked the first pic, comfy is Always sexy, she's just right, and i assume she loves you, that's a wonderful combination!!🤗🤗🤗🤗

@SilkandLace2 Yes, she's aleays just right to me! I do like how she has grown a little bit comfortable and cuddly too. We're so happy together and very lucky.

@Emele soooooo lovely for you both!!

@rhouse bbw? What would that make me 😅 I didn't even consider myself a bbw at 220lbs

@Emele uh. Probably not considering how far along she is

@RandomForest Considering she is my lesbian girlfriend I'm sticking with my first answer! She is not pregnant!

@Emele Uh huh.

@Emele I would love to see a pic of the two of you together to compare

@Emele Thanks for sharing! Beautiful. I would enjoy chatting with you more about your relationship

@Keepitsimple No! A lot more people are asking/assuming that than I thought.
Well, I didn't even think they might.

@Emele she looks about 5 months pregnant but it shouldn’t matter what other people think, you both have to be happy. 😉

@Keepitsimple aww ☺️ I don't even want kids but that is quite cute to me lol.
I think her pose in the second photo doesn't help!
Thank you, we are! I am quite on the larger side myself so I am well used to just being comfortable with myself whatever anyone else thinks.

@Akemi No baby!

@Emele love time

@Neutral 🤔 That's a new one on me. I don't like it, does not sound cute 😄

@Stereoguy haha, you can either be entirely pregnant or not pregnant at all though right? Unless you mean pregnant, but not very far along. Either way, she is definitely not!