Is it hypocritical to demand fidelity from a lover whilst cheating behind their back?

Court69 · M

Yes but it happens all the time. Usually they are acting out on their own actions.

wheels1972 · M

obviously!

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

[c=#002673] yes, but then again a cheetah wouldn't be that concerned with being labeled a hypocrite. [/c]

tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F

Yes its double standards . Either be monogamous or enjoy an open relationship

Lolco · 36-40, M

That is such betrayal, I think of this alot, ofcourse if someone has their mind set on cheating they will do it regardless and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it... but I try to be very mindful & be what I expect...

Wisteria · M

No, but its because im jealous but i want my partner to be jealous knowing other people want me but my partner cant do that to me because im insecure.

ClosetCD · M

Yes it is. And being a hypocrite is the same as being as asshole. You don't want to be that.

chilloutab2 · 41-45, M

I can't understand how you can demand fidelity if you love someone. I think demanding fidelity is all about loving yourself through someone rather than loving the other person. Just expressing my opinion, not asking anyone to agree with it. I do respect all people holding their own views and morals, so long as those views are not imposed on anyone.