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Should I try to avoid noticing other pretty women when I'm with my girlfriend?

4meAndyou · F
Yes, you should. I know it is impossible for some men to be kind, or even considerate, and they really don't care if they hurt the women in their lives...but try to put the shoe on the other foot.

Try to think how YOU would feel if your girlfriend was always ogling other men, or obviously staring at them. Wouldn't it make you feel like she wasn't really interested in YOU? Or that you were not special? Or that you were tired of her and wanted to sample some other dishes?

I remember the 2nd ex-husband, father of my son...coming home one day from work, and announcing to me, as I sat there with his baby, that he saw a gorgeous woman as he was driving home, and he almost drove off the road. It wasn't enough for that particular jerk to have noticed another woman when I wasn't there. He had to come home and rub my nose in it.

With all the many things you can choose to be in this world...choose to be kind.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou well yeah lol, but that's also how much respect I have for her.
4meAndyou · F
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Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou thnaks, you too. My mom actually brought me up not to be gawking at other women.
Practice the Secret Service technique of constantly but subtly scanning the crowd. If necessary, wear mirrored shades.

You can observe without being insultingly obvious about it.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@Mamapolo2016 I just figured look away when I see another pretty woman, unless she's my waitress or something cause I kinda have to look at her.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
No, whatever you do don't do that. That will box you into a corner you will never get out of. You need to train her so she recognizes when you do that, you are actually complimenting her.
Budwick · 70-79, M
Well, consider not pointing them out to the girlfriend at least.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@Budwick I'm cautious, I don't check out anyone at the beach anymore.
Budwick · 70-79, M
@Billybob2 👍️
Nayla · 51-55, F
yes and don't let your gf know you looked at another woman
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@Nayla I keep my mouth shut when I see an attractive woman on TV.
Sadie14 · F
That’s probably a wise decision.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@Sadie14 yeah, I just figure shield my eyes, unless she's a waitress or something. I have to order from her lol.
JustSaying · 31-35
Just try to avoid her noticing you.rest is fine
jimjim1969 · M
No, beauty is attractive
smiler2012 · 56-60
billybob2 yes might be wise if you =r girlfriend sees you eyeing up other woman it is a whole load of trouble you are heading for
bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M
......... In a literal way, no, since that's not possible, ogling on the other hand... Yeah no don't do that.. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ
Nika2002 · 22-25, F
No. Just squeeze your gf so other girls know you're hers.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@Nika2002 good advice, but strangely I feel wrong for even looking. Like my gut tells me to look away, unless they're talking to me of course, that would be rude. I guess I'm wired differently.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Just tell her that you are thinking of her when she notices! 😈
Crazychick · 36-40, F
I think that would be a very good idea.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@Crazychick I look the other way when I see a pretty woman from a distance and keep my mouth shut when I see one on TV or in a movie.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@Billybob2 Just stay true to your girlfriend, play the Roy Orbison song "Pretty Woman" for her to hear and tell her it reminds you of her.
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