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What usually is the reason why married men cheat ?

The opportunity arose.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
@ProdigalSummer arose lol
@Paliglass hehe I was hoping someone would catch that
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
It’s just who they are
They are bored
They have a huge ego
They have low self esteem
They have to multi task
They have a hard on and a willing piece of ass
SW-User
I've always seen it like this: it's great for them to have someone they can f*** on the side, while they have the spouse doing everything at home. Plus they don't lose anything: money in the bank account, house, etc... A divorce would cost them a lot.

Basically they want to have it all. Loyalty and honesty mean very little to them.

I must add this applies to both men AND women.
Not getting any at home for one reason or another.
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from what I've read, men cheat to supplement for something they are missing at home. women cheat because they're done, had enough and just don't see a way out of the relationship.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@stound I kinda agree with this. If I was to cheat it would be because I’m out and divorce is in the works or will be shortly.
SW-User
Ego stroking, give into temptation, dick rules them, they have no regard for honor or loyalty. If it's really that bad at home, then fycking leave instead of deceive or lie to spouse
SW-User
@SW-User EXACTLY.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
I think it feeds a fantasy (not unique to males, BTW) of being able to have the fun part of a relationship without all the messiness and hard work of the real thing.
A woman will always tell you she is pregnant whether she is or isn't. Over a dozen have tried that on me. Nobody has managed to get me off yet and they didnt cheat. How did they get knocked up, immaculate conception? And they always get the abortion BEFORE they tell you they were pregnant.
@Keepitsimple sorry. I put this comment in th wrong spot somehow. I meant to reply to the one about women knowing their childten but not men .
@Anonymartyr Damn bro 😂 what kind of women do you hang out with?
@GreenGoddess None anymore but only Canadians and Americans before.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
Maybe they just have to go and see their wife sometimes 😜😂😂😂
SW-User
I would think the same reasons women do. 🤷‍♀️
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Likely it’s a selfish desire for different sex, different vagina, looser or tighter or just different, different breast size and or shape, big or small vagina lips, different blow job, I’m admitting it’s irresponsible and selfish but it happens.
He married a good housekeeper/mother, but she became sexually used up before finishing high school from all the partying.
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
It feeds their ego, they use it as a means to feel better about themselves and hide their insecurities
smiler2012 · 56-60
beyou weakness to temptation to do so if the opportunity arises unhappy relationship
SW-User
For the same reason why married women cheat.
Graylight · 51-55, F
It's amazing here how many users listed physical need or desire in their posts. Infidelity is rarely about either. It can be as simple as an easy opportunity and emotional immaturity, but usually it's wrapped up a lot more. It's much more about the head and heart than any body parts.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Because they can
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@vetguy1991 Lonely women will say yes to them while their wife doesn't want to wind up divorced and then become one of those lonely women.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Hard to say. I honestly believe that different people carry different genetic predispositions for preference of one partner or many. The cheaters, of both genders, may carry the many partner genes.

There could be a host of other reasons as well. From not feeling desired at home, to finding a thrill in engaging in bad behavior.

At the end of the day, I believe the ultimate root cause is a break down in quality communication.
he has no self-control
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Probably the same reasons why married women cheat?
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@Heartlander Hey, don't be sexist!
SW-User
the chase, the confidence boost, the ego boost

and our cocks contain our brains
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Nika2002 · 22-25, F
It's natural. A woman always knows the child is hers. A man doesn't.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
A sense of entitlement; all their friends do it.
Wol62 · 51-55, M
Their wives suck in bed.
@Wol62 they suck in bed but their wives love them to much to tell them
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@saragoodtimes True. My wife was terrible in bed but I couldn't tell her that as it would hurt her too much.
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
Pecker rules the brain. 🤷‍♂️
They’re sinners
Liz51 · 56-60, F
Variety :)
goldenorchid · 46-50, F
Opportunity.
Azlotto · M
Could be the cha-ching factor.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Problems at home/easier to smash something new than work on present sitch.

 
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