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I like this girl in my Psychology class, any advice?

DunningKruger · 61-69, M Best Comment
Ask her if she'd like to get some [insert favorite drink here] and study.
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@DunningKruger you mean pretend to be a nerd?
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Harrystyles11 You have to find some point of commonality with which to start a conversation. If you don't want to use the obvious, go with the unambiguous.

"Hi. You seem interesting and I would like to get to know you better. Would you like to get a drink with me sometime?"
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@DunningKruger Yeah gotcha Thanks man!

Quizzical · 46-50, M
Don't pretend to be anything you are not.

She will either like you or she won't, but at least you will have been true to yourself.
rockstar · 31-35, M
Chloroform.
(You know I’m not serious)

Talk to her and make her to get to know you.
If she’s interested in you and shares your intent, good for you both. If she isn’t, find someone else. And definitely don’t use chloroform.
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@rockstar 😂 haha OK thanks
SW-User
Study very, very, [i]very[/i] hard.
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@SW-User you mean by studying psychology harder I'll be able to understand her better through psychology lol
SW-User
@Harrystyles11 You're very astute! Good luck.
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@SW-User lol
SW-User
Why not make friends with her and treat her like a human .
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@SW-User but what if I want her to be my girlfriend
SW-User
@Harrystyles11 That is how you should treat girls you date also.
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@SW-User Yeah but even become friends is a long way to go, I mean we re completely strangers in the same class
SW-User
Probably thru the waist. Same how she gets in them
Johnblackthorn · 56-60, M
Ask her to bring a spare pair in that you could borrow, but to be honest I imagine that creepy shit would just freak her out.
Rather than trying to get into her pants you could get to know her a bit, like a normal person.
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@Johnblackthorn ik but how do I get to know her without looking desperate or needy
Johnblackthorn · 56-60, M
@Harrystyles11 girls like confident guys that are happy with themselves, if that's not you, why?
You're young, fit, healthy and intelligent, we know that much, you have no reason to doubt yourself, just chat to her, with no expectations of anything other than a chat.
Most importantly don't try to impress her, but do make an impression, even it it's nothing more than being polite and well spoken. Oh and be you.
SW-User
Lol hope she is not that stupid
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
If you were taking any other class my advice would be [i]just be yourself.[/i]
But given the subject you're studying, i'm not sure that's particularly wise advice since you don't know whether you'd be considered 'boyfriend' or 'subject' material !
DamnFeelz · 36-40, F
Ask her thoughts on the material in an open question way that you also have opinions/ideas about. Don’t interrupt. Build a conversation from that and introduce yourself.
Organize a study group and then ask her if she wants to join. Keep the group small. That way you can spend time with her in a way feels more natural and therefore you will be less anxious.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Steal the one you want to get in when it's in the laundry and she's not home? Then get in them
alan20 · M
@Prettybratbi1tch That could be tricky!
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@Prettybratbi1tch okay lol jokes apart I need a serious advice
MySecretIdentity1 · 46-50, M
Whatever you do, don't act crazy.
MySecretIdentity1 · 46-50, M
@Harrystyles11 If it is described in your text book as abnormal, that is crazy. But, since she is taking the class, acting a little anxiety ridden, might actually get her to interact with you.
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@MySecretIdentity1 you mean like I should act all sad and depressed?
MySecretIdentity1 · 46-50, M
@Harrystyles11 Don't lie, just allow you vulnerable side to show more. Some women respond to that because they don't often see that from men.
SW-User
Have you learned about Operant Conditioning yet?
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@SW-User no
SW-User
@Harrystyles11 Well, then go with the direct approach. "Hello...."
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@SW-User and then lol
Ian123 · 61-69, M
Ask her out then 💕
Ian123 · 61-69, M
@Harrystyles11 Yes, if you don’t try you will never know will you? Whats the worst that can happen, Good Luck ❤️
Harrystyles11 · 22-25, M
@Ian123 uh I mean we re completely strangers and it might look desperate, there's a great chance I might get turned down, at least according to what my experiences have taught me.
Ian123 · 61-69, M
@Harrystyles11 Ok you’ve bad experiences before, I expect everyone has. I know it’s difficult but she can only say no, and you never know she might agree. Deep breath, and go and ask her
Extant1 · M
Pay attention to operant conditioning and pavlovs dog !🤣😂🤣😂🤣🥃🥃🥃
Success · 26-30, F
Ask her if she likes anal-ysis
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Roofie... Just kidding
use psychology. figure her out and have fun with it. she'll either love u for it or ignore u
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Ask her for a paper or something small and start talking

 
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