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What are your views on open relationships and cheating?

I do not get lost in titles, labels and imaginary club rules

Have I been used before? .... yep

Have I helped? .... far more than I have hurt

Do I have regrets? ... only that I have feelings too

Am I a great date? ... that is what I am told

Am I packaged? ... no way

Do I recommend galaxy relationships? ... not really, but nobody plans them

Is love good? ... always
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@questionWeaver Lol she makes me care packages and I love chocolate covered nuts, especially pecans. She always sends me those, but I must have had it on my mind because I dreamed I was sitting on an upside down bucket in my yard eating pecans out of a huge bucket. Lol
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
As we go through life, we experience many things, and you know what? I believe we are meant to experience all of it. The pleasures and the pain. @Master5dad
I'm not saying we shouldn't feel it but don't let it control your actions. Disappointment becomes sadness becomes depression which leads to staying home after a bad break up gaining weight or hurting yourself for months and becoming bitter. Or liking someone falling for them becoming obsessed stalking or overspending on them and chasing them away. You have to have control of yourself and to your emotions. @HeavenBesideYou
TexChik · F
I'm a bit old fashioned there. I am strictly monogamous
SweetMae · 70-79, F
If both parties agree, then it isn't cheating.
@SweetMae Asks Mae, if I could have this dance?
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@questionWeaver Yes! 💃 Thank you Sir
@SweetMae smiles ... tell your date and your friends I will have you back in a half-hour ... you and the music are a perfect match
SW-User
Don't care for open relationships, for some people they can work, for me they wont ever.If you don't want me completely then you wont have me at all.
You may as well just stay single lmao and have friends with benefits.
As for cheating, I think some people deserve a second chance if they truly regret it and want to change. I've seen some people who have done it once(usually something tiny like flirting) and feel totally guilty over that and cry and feel awful over it. It really tears them up to the point where the partner isn't even bothered by it anymore and yet the one who cheated is the one who keeps holding onto it and beating themselves up over it without ever moving forward.
I'm down for cheating ,you got a sister ?
@Master5dad stop being a perv 😂
@Nunlover I mean you're the one down with digging her up and committing incest and necrophillia.
@Master5dad 🤫😂
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
If both people are good with their relationship, then I have no problem with it, open or not.

Cheating though, that’s a shitty thing to do to someone period.
jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M
Open relationships are fine. Cheating is dumb. If you want to be with someone else, tell the person you're with or break it off. Don't be a jerk about it.
Magenta · F
I only answer [i]for[/i] myself. That isn't my definition of a relationship, it's playing the field. May as well be single. Cheating, same thing.

I prefer a committed relationship where two are devoted to each other.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Open relationship.. eh why bother just dont get in a relationship then you free to do what you want, cheating I dont agree with it but try not to judge not everything is black and white
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UserNameSW · 46-50, M
I have no time for cheaters. What people do in an honest trusted relationship is up to them
Cheating+apathy=open marriage
@ianR0ckwell the marriage is already over..like a dead tree that has not fallen over yet
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Poly isn't for everyone...
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
I couldnt do it
jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M
Open relationship? I don't judge, but thought is scary, confusing.

Cheating, no thank, what is the point? Yes, people do it day and night, but does not help the cause.
Cheating = bad
Open relationship = only works in rare occasions. I think someone almost always gets too attached
SW-User
Not for me, thanks.
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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Open relationships sort of just make me think of single people that date around. But obviously if everyone involved is happy it wouldn’t seem to be a problem.

Cheating on the other hand isn’t something I’ve got much sympathy for.
I’m aware there’s unique circumstances etc but generally it just puts a sour taste in my mouth 🤷🏽‍♀️

 
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