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What’s Your “True Love” Success Story? Does it even exist? (Read for more)

[c=#BF0080]I want to read your success stories, of how you found “the one”.

There’s so many horror stories out there when it comes to love and dating and I need to lighten up my own mood. I haven’t been feeling the most optimistic when it comes down to matters of the heart, and.. “men”.

I’ve been mislead, dragged through the mud and left for dead. I’ve been manipulated into believing that what “we” had was the real thing. I’ve been hurt to the core, to the point where it makes me even question if I’ll ever end up with my true soul mate, [i]if they even exist.[/i]

However, I’m wise enough to know that not all men are the same, and at some point I have to hold myself accountable for the types of men I entertain and the red flags I ignore, regardless of “empathy” and feelings.

Feelings can cloud judgment, and emotions can block discernment ([i]I’m sure.[/i].)

But I do still believe in true love. ([i]Healthy love[/i]).


•What should women look for when trying to figure out of this man is truly serious about being with her? [i](I’m sure saying it isn’t enough, because some people lie.[/i]

•How did you know?

•When did you realize they were the one?

•What are your love languages?

•How to make a relationship last, even through trying times?[/c]
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DamnFeelz · 36-40, F
Turning on notifications for this one 🍿
InvisibleAnne · 31-35, F
@DamnFeelz LOL SAME! I love the question but I can't imagine anyone up here has found "true love"
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@InvisibleAnne Well, if SW is what you all are saying it is, I feel like I’m in an alternate universe lol like a sick cyber “black mirror” episode where everyone’s on the same website for the same thing, because in reality, we haven’t found love lol.
InvisibleAnne · 31-35, F
@Mrowe718 That sounds horrific. Almost as bad as the episode with the girl stuck in that Alexa/personal assistant thingy?! That one creeped me out.
DamnFeelz · 36-40, F
Hey, I’m here because my life is crazy busy and I’m not in a situation where I have the free time to broaden my social circles so I get my mental stimulation fix here 🤓@Mrowe718
InvisibleAnne · 31-35, F
@DamnFeelz Agreed, I'm really just up here to find ppl to talk to, not true love. Or any other flavor.
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@InvisibleAnne that was definitely a sick episode (almost all of them lol creeped me out). I think San Junipero was the least creepy of them all...
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@DamnFeelz same for me girl, I was being facetious af lol
InvisibleAnne · 31-35, F
@Mrowe718 Yes! I really enjoyed that one. It was too cute and didn't make me completely reconsider my relationship with technology, haha
DamnFeelz · 36-40, F
I don’t think it’s just SW that has this human connection issue. The site exists to fill a void of some kind for everybody who is here. That said, statistically, people who use the Internet to satisfy their social outlets tend to have maladaptive/atypical social behaviors add/or emotional intelligence, so the vast majority of people on a social forum will likely have relationship difficulties @Mrowe718