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Am I overreacting?

We made a strong attraction towards each other.
I had plans with him today, but I argued terribly with my parents again. So I texted him I might not be available for our plans. [b]might not[/b]. I told him reason. He texted me if I wanted to talk about it , which was nice. Then he said if I didn't want to talk about it, to hold tight. Fine. I took a nap , since that's how I cope sometimes with mental problems. I woke up and felt better. I instantly messaged him that I'm available , it wasn't too late and he wasn't busy. I told him we can go. Instead , he told me to come over to him , he's with female friend. I know that girl , and I got nothing against her , except that she's all over him whenever...
The two of us aren't in official relationship I'd say , but we still have a thing , right? And we're heading there.
So i didn't bother going there. I stayed at my place. Without them.

I know it might be rude to tell a friend that you need to go all of a sudden, because of your "crush" , but if he was my crush and if I was in that situation , I'd apologize to my friend and my friend would understand that I need to leave. It felt like he chose her over me , the girl that is all over him , a girl I saw his comments about how she's hot and has big boobs (WTH?), that is "just friend" , and you two are in apartment alone? Whoa. No thanks.


Then after some time later he calls me and asks me random stuff. It felt like he had good time with her , now that she's gone - I'll do.

*sigh*
SW-User
Tell him how you feel. He cannot know how you're feeling unless you tell him what's bothering you.
SW-User
@Triggerer It shouldn't be. That said, if he is in your age bracket his hormones may be all over the place. Probably thinking with something else other than his brain.
Wiseacre · F
Let him say what he wants...learn do disengage!@Triggerer
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@SW-User He's actually very mature and 30 years old.
curiosi · 61-69, F
Yes you did. You told him that there was a good chance you wouldn't be available. He made other plans. He still tried to include you but you didn't want to.
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@curiosi I thought the same, but I didn't completely like the thought of the other girl. I believe you wouldn't too , would you? And during all of their hangout , he didn't want to even send text. 🤷‍♀️
curiosi · 61-69, F
@Triggerer I am confident enough to not play into jealousy.
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@curiosi It's not about jealousy, I've never been jealous my entire life. I'm not jealous type , it just didn't feel right.
Wiseacre · F
OMG, i’m glad i’m not ur age...all that drama over nothing. I can’t relate. When I was ur age, I was too busy for romance!
Triggerer · 22-25, F
@Wiseacre Haha, too bad this century is awful. And everything it brings within people.
Wiseacre · F
Well, our young ppl don’t have the wisdom yet to discern what’s important, what isn’t!@Triggerer
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Dump him. He’s not worth your time.
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Wiseacre · F
I probably would’ve...@Carissimi

 
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