How do you stand out with so many pretty women to compete agaisnt?

LA? Phewey! That would be overwhelming! If I lived there --- this is me being honest --- I'd 1) Workout like crazy and do everything I can to [i]feel good[/i] about my looks and 2) I'd really focus on who I am and take pride in who I've become. You know, there are beautiful women everywhere. You must find yourself deep down and stand out in a crowd, because you exude confidence. They don't even have to know you, but if you know yourself and [i][b]love yourself[/b][/i], you won't even feel like you're competing anymore. Confidence does that... There is no real competition when you love yourself. You'll know there is someone out there who is just right for you, and he'll be lucky to have you. It's different when you know and take pride in who you are, because then you'll just admire the beauty around you. I do believe in love. That's why I mentioned finding someone who is right for you. If you don't believe in love, believe in love for yourself at the very least.

One more thing, all those beautiful women you see in LA --- they are all insecure and feel just like you if not worse. Beautiful women are the most insecure beings on this earth. They're lucky if they ever find a way to get past their looks and shallowness. Most do not.

Personality; character; a sense of humour; kindness; charity; the ability to hold a sensible conversation; good temper; decent disposition; intelligence.

Only shallow men judge women solely by their looks.

dress in something casual but tight and play the damsel-in-distress in male dominated places (eg big box hardware store early in the morning on weekdays) im joking but also not joking 😜

Just be yourself and don't "try" so hard, people can sense that. Always give direct eye contact when speaking with someone, and don't lie just to be "nice!" 😉

Superficial Beauty is cheap and easy these days. What's hard is principles, kindness, and integrity.

Lol, the only pretty people in LA are the ones making a career out of it. Everyone else looks pretty average to me. But tbh, men ain't always looking for someone pretty. Anyone can look hot, but it takes someone special that they can vibe with. If you wanna be more of a California baddie, ya gotta get lash extensions, nails, and healthy hair. Thass all. Basic girl stuff.

Well guys have the same problem I know I certainly did starting off. It’s just putting yourself out there and not worrying about being too this or that. It’s not worth trying to worry about such things when there’s plenty of guys who would be happy with just who you are.

Years ago I lived in CA. What I discovered is yes men are attracted to beauty but it's the beauty within that they crave the most. A good woman who is kind, loving and thoughtful wins them over. Trust me.

Aside from the scribble over the top half of your face you look soo pretty and beautiful would be surprised if you had difficulty getting a guy who you liked to like you you look pretty outstandingly beautiful

Just be yourself and not worry about your 'competition'. Connection is not about standing out, but finding someone you connect with.

I know what u mean...
Believe in yourself, never let others make u feel less, just be yourself

With that mentality just move to Indiana.

Walk on stilts, then you'd stand out 🤭