Would you leave your partner if they told people about your fetish?

@nektar94 wut?

@SW-User I never expected anything of her. It is a "bonus" in our sex life, not an obligation.

@Badunk they’d always have it on the back of their mind tho

@SW-User well, we have indulged in it, and she expressed an interest.. somewhat. But it doesn't take away from our normal "vanilla" sex life. I just don't know if i can trust her anymore.

@saragoodtimes so a threesome? You and him, with HIPPA on top? ;) :P hehehe

@Stevy Its a pregnancy fetish. We have explored it. But i wanted to keep it private and not have people know something so personal to me. I used to hate myself because of it and she knows that. She just betrayed my trust by telling a bunch of people. (Some i dont particularly like)

Not trying to direct any anger towards you btw just frustrated af.

@Badunk I hear you, you have a right to be upset. I have fetish's myself and I could care less if my GF told anyone. But that's just me.🤷‍♂️

@Stevy thanks man. I know its not a big deal to have a fetish like this. I just had a bunch of people kinkshame me at a party and i don't really want to go through that again.

@Badunk humans are social creatures... most can't help but share some of the time, especially if they're really tight with someone, something concerns them, or they get caught up in the moment.

People might be able to limit things to a small group of people but not completely tell no one.

But I think most women are going to talk about pregnancy and babies at some point, so I don't think your fetish is safe... especially when it's something only a woman's body can do.

Also remember, some girls might be scared off of that fetish, and dump you for it and she didn't/hasn't.


What you should do, depends on how you feel about her, outside of this one thing... how did you feel about her before finding out about this?

If you two truely like each other, I think y'all be able to move on past this without too much trouble.

@Viper she is controling, and has fits of rage. And I can't trust her anymore. Thanks for the reply.

@Badunk If she's controlling and you don't like it, especially with fits of rage, that.might only get word the deeper you get involved with the person.

@Angeliclove I can keep a secret for my woman.