Have you ever repeatability given your heart to the wrong person knowing full well your gonna...

SW-User

Because people are complicated and they acted like they loved me.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

When we lived in my motor home we got along great
but she had a house (I later kept her from losing it with my GIBill)
So 3 room house ,motor home ,,it was a no brainer to me ,,more room in the house
But every time we moved into the house ,she turned into a controlling B again

I have learned when you do everything they want ,for some reason they don't respect you ,act like they are replaceable ,you could care less if they leave
Then they don't want to loose you ,,it never made sense to me
but thats my experience
When we moved into the house I was fixing it up and on top of the honey do list ,and she drank and raised hell
In the motor home she wanted to be in my arms .lay in bed late
take it to the beach and chill all day
She loved to go harvest clams and oysters with me ,,go on an island and make love in the sand
Go to that house ,she just changed
I moved back into my motor home and told her she couldn't come
She moved my Brother in ,,he had 25 yrs of hell
he shot himself out there
I am glad I got out before she drove me to that ,,,LOL

BeefySenpie · M

No, but sometimes you don't cut it off because you hope in vain that things will change

SW-User

Hoped they would see my worth and love me back

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

No. When you know you have value, it doesn't really matter too much what one person thinks. Even if they're a really great person, and you care about them and want them to like you. In the end, they're most likely exchangeable, like we all are.

The trick, as I have found, is making yourself the least interchangeable you can. Obtain as much value as possible, so you aren't so obsessed over one person, because you have a lot of options.

People say it a lot, but then you can think it really is [i]their[/i] loss.