Would you eventually get irritated at your spouse or partner if?

@SW-User This is exactly how I feel. I think that we are a nice couple, normal and I want us to try to maintain our few friends not become shut in or I have to go everywhere alone like I'm single when I do absolutely everything for him. You have to make an effort.

@SW-User See how that's void of logic? You just said "he isn't ready" and (paraphrase) "he should be more ready" in the same sentence.

What he should do is to break up and stay single.

@MartinTheFirst am I supposed to clap for you now?

@SW-User fap*

@Keepitsimple Whew ice cold but I understand

I couldn’t do it. I’d be depressed and out of touch with reality. It’s just not a life I want to live at this point. @REMsleep

@DearAmbellina2113 Well I generally dont like to let anyone in real life know but I've had it pretty bad all my life. From constantly having upset GI which after years of terrible suffering MD told me was likely stress.
Used to throw up before school on the side of the building.
I dont want to talk about me.I only want to point out that no matter what. I get up and do what needs to be done for my family, do whats right, support my husband. I don't care if it kills me so a few dinner parties which are actually freaking hard for me too is not too much to ask. I believe its necessary for a balanced life. He does not work. I do

@REMsleep it sounds like he's not willing to push himself outside his comfort zone the way you do. That could be a dealbreaker. Talk to him about it.