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indyjoe · 56-60, M
Many a time. I spend a lot of time wishing, dreaming, and hoping that there would be someone. During those times I would probably have an interest or "crush" but it was never realized and nothing ever came of it. I remember those times well and I'm glad that they are behind me...not something I ever want to visit again.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Yes. I'm in that phase now as we speak.
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SW-User
@Beatbox34 I understand your thought process, you are monogamous and you only want one and only person. No feelings for others. I completely get it. I cant bear the thought of intimate thoughts other than my partner. It's wrong. You get to a point where you hurt so much that you're not willing to open up anymore because you see everyone as a threat, another being that will hurt you ☹️
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User You elaborated what I thought. That's exactly how I feel. People keep telling me there's a lot of women but I'm not interested in anyone anymore. I was interested in one but when that specific person doesn't want me then who the hell am I to force them. But at the same time I don't feel I'll be able to open up. It's okay. It's a part and parcel of life. We come alone and we go alone.
SW-User
@Beatbox34 we come alone and go alone ? 😭😭😭 Damn
SW-User
Hahahaha yeah thats basically my whole life. And then all of a sudden, something would change when someone randomly says hi. 🙄😐
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Yeah, just enjoyed being on my own. Playing video games.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@5thApprentice I enjoyed being on my own as well, but there was always something missing. No matter what I really enjoyed, I just felt like it would be much better if there was someone to share it with.
Northwest · M
Perhaps felt not loved, but not feeling love for anyone? No.
SW-User
right now
xixgun · M
yep
butterflymind1 · F
yes
Gelartsyyy · 22-25, F
Yup