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What is Love???????

Everyone says, i love you, you love me, but what is Love in reality???๐Ÿ’•
eMortal ยท M Best Comment
A pain that feels good.
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eMortal ยท M
@Ninazobi Thank you, thank you! ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐ŸŽ“

Love is commitment, faithfulness, honesty, genuineness, not selfish, not self-seeking, but warm, inviting, not fault-finding, respectful, thoughtful, kind, accepting one as they are and supportive. A lot of things.
alan20 ยท M
@LadyGrace True, but difficult not to be hurt when deceived. Of course it can be almost unavoidable.
@alan20 Oh, absolutely. I was speaking more of people who look for flaws in their partner or are always knit-piking. Never happy.
alan20 ยท M
@LadyGrace Yes. One needs to accept that one is a hell of a long way from perfect oneself.
Northwest ยท M
On Love, by Khalil Gibran

Then said Almitra, Speak to us of Love.
And he raised his head and looked upon
the people, and there fell a stillness upon
them. And with a great voice he said:
When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to
him,
Though the sword hidden among his
pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in
him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as love crowns you so shall he
crucify you. Even as he is for your growth
so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and
caresses your tenderest branches that quiver
in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and
shake them in their clinging to the earth.
โ€ข
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto
himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred
fire, that you may become sacred bread for
Godโ€™s sacred feast.

All these things shall love do unto you
that you may know the secrets of your
heart, and in that knowledge become a
fragment of Lifeโ€™s heart.

But if in your fear you would seek only
loveโ€™s peace and loveโ€™s pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover
your nakedness and pass out of loveโ€™s
threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you
shall laugh, but not all of your laughter,
and weep, but not all of your tears.
โ€ข
Love gives naught but itself and takes
naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be
possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.

When you love you should not say,
โ€œGod is in my heart,โ€ but rather, โ€œI am
in the heart of God.โ€
And think not you can direct the course
of love, for love, if it finds you worthy,
directs your course.

Love has no other desire but to fulfil
itself.
But if you love and must needs have
desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook
that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own under-
standing of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart
and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate
loveโ€™s ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with grati-
tude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the
beloved in your heart and a song of praise
upon your lips.
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Northwest ยท M
@Ninazobi From "The Prophet" by Gibran Khalil Gibran
Is that your real photo?
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trackman11 ยท 61-69, M
We use love in a lot of different ways.
I think lasting, committed love has to be a choice that I make daily. In romance, I believe the most common mistake is to believe love is having your needs met. Lots of better answers below. ๐Ÿ™‚
trackman11 ยท 61-69, M
@Busybee333 I agree. We all have that need, but 50-50 never works and you can only choose for yourself. The relationships that I have observed that last are each person choosing to be all in, but nobody is perfect. So I choose to be all in, even on days when I may not โ€œfeelโ€ loved. Does that make sense?

I love your point about teamwork though. Wow. That is the practical part.
Busybee333 ยท 31-35, F
@trackman11 Your emotional discipline is admirable! I have my moody days, it's a balance thing I guess.

I connect with everyone but for relationships..If I can't be all in I can't even start xD With some luck, I look forward to feel that "all in team" connection with someone (Dreams live on !)

When I feel in need of love I remind myself that I am lucky to see family often. Emergency hugs are a blessing โค ๐Ÿ˜Š
trackman11 ยท 61-69, M
@Busybee333 itโ€™s easy to write something, much more difficult and meaningful to live it. I strive to do things right but fail often. ๐Ÿ™‚

You are impressive.
luctoretemergo ยท 61-69, M
It's something that is as old as human existence itself! What is it? Maybe the real question is how do you find it? Where is it? How do you know when you have found it?....it's as different as we are as people. As great as it is...there is no bigger pain in life than when you lose it or are betrayed by it.
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ThePerfectUsername ยท 70-79, M
Love is a commitment to do whatever it takes to protect and nourish the bond you have with someone. It doesn't matter whether it's love for a man woman or even a child. You simply do whatever it takes to make the relationship flourish. If you don't know how to do something you find out, if differences occur you strive to find a way to resolve them in a manner that honours both of you. Love is forever, it's not there just to make you happy till you get bored one day and decide to move on to someone else.
ThePerfectUsername ยท 70-79, M
It takes a lot of hard work but if you find someone who reciprocates the rewards are amazing. I'll have been married to the same woman for 47 years in a couple of weeks. Not all of it happy by a long shot but we're closer now than we've ever been. ๐Ÿค— @Ninazobi
SteelHands ยท 61-69, M
@ThePerfectUsername This answer makes me ask myself, "Where have I heard this before?

Then I remember. Oh yeah. Mr. Forgiveness. My bullshit self. Lol
ThePerfectUsername ยท 70-79, M
Part of that particular trick for me was realising I'd done things that needed forgiving too. Not always the case of course, but to my mind if offering and asking for genuine forgiveness gets you nowhere they probably never commited in the first place. @SteelHands
Busybee333 ยท 31-35, F
Love is anything you want ! My heart thrives on family and friendships atm , another kind of love.. oh and art. Any form of art that makes my heart feel happy :)
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Great question!

A few people including myself believe love is whatever the two people make it to be.
SW-User
Love is respect, love is kindness, love is a deep emotional connection to someone
alan20 ยท M
An extension of yourself into a new form of existence - ecstasy.

 
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