This is so embarrassing, sigh

Whenever I’m particularly turned on, I find that my eyes get very bedroom-y, or hooded, because I can feel it, even if I’m not actually in the presence of or doing anything with anyone. It could simply be thinking about something. I have terrible bedroom eyes and it almost feels like I’m going to cry.. My head also tilts up a little, naturally. sigh. So weird. Altogether like a blissful paralysis and I can’t really control it. But I guess I’m just trying to ask if anyone else ever feels or acts this way?

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Effloresce · 26-30, F

I don’t think that happens to me, but I’ve never really thought about what I look like when I’m turned on 🤔 I think for me it’s more so just a growing warmth that I feel, so more internal than external

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

I’m not sure I’m following. Are you saying people can see it in your face if you’re turned on sexually, even if it’s in an inappropriate place and time?

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SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@Hatzy Hm okay. Take comfort in the fact that you may just be blowing it up in your mind.

But, just to be safe, I’ll give you some suggestions to help get those “turned on” feelings to go away in the moment. Does that sound good?

Hatzy

Sure, thank you. @SinlessOnslaught

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

@Hatzy Okay. When you start to feel like that, try shifting your focus to something else. A song that’s playing, a conversation someone’s having, anything. It will be hard at first. Your “turned on” feelings will overpower any other thoughts you have. But with practice, you’ll get better.

CharleyAsianGirl

I think this all sound natural. My chest tighten and my voice sound funny. The eyes you make sound very sexy.

quitwhendone · M

Can we see those eyes, please?

Montanaman · M

@quitwhendone I'm sure it's saved for someone privileged to see. But damn, what a dream.

funfan · 46-50, M

Do not worry about it. 😊 We all have our 'tells' in body language when attracted to someone or something. On a side note, "blissful paralysis" is a wondrous phrase I must remember.

Montanaman · M

It's the mask of desire, and cannot be repressed nor ignored.

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