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When you are in a relationship and if you feel attracted to someone else, does it mean there is something wrong with your relationship?

You know what they say about the grass...

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Visual attraction is just that. If you are constantly thinking on another person and imagining scenarios then perhaps so.
purplepen · 51-55, F
For most people I think it's normal to be aware that others are attractive too. Bur in my case I don't notice, or don't care, whether a man is attractive unless I'm in love with him already.
It depends how much that attraction pulls you away from your relationship. There might be something wrong in the relationship before the attraction ever occurred to allow that attraction to occur in the first place.

Or they just might be an attractive person that you can admire without any feelings.

It all depends on the situation I suppose.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
Not at all....you can still find others attractive, even if you’re perfectly happy with your s/o.
No. It means you and your emotions are alive. If you act on that attraction there’s now something wrong.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
No it means you have eyes.
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
For a woman? Yes. Absolutely. When women are in a relationship, if they feel they are in a great one, they won't even look at other men as sexual potentials. Like, 0%. Only reason a woman looks elsewhere is if she's not satisfied.

It's different with high-end celebrities and such, I think. But if she's looking at other [b]available[/b] men or men in public, yeah, bad sign, imo.

Men, men will look elsewhere like the dog from UP, but it isn't as serious as a woman looking elsewhere, because it's not indicative that he is unsatisfied in the relationship.

This is kinda how we men are. Except replace "squirrel" with "boobs". [youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSUXXzN26zg]
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Did someone say “boobs”? Where? @Tatsumi
Not necessarily. Passing attraction is [b]not[/b] action.
english · 56-60, M
its ok to check out the menu ,as long you remember you cant have everything at once ,🙃
JBird · F
@english 🤪
english · 56-60, M
@JBird you would nt be human if you did nt have peep now and then,🙃
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Nah, it is not like you suddenly stop finding other people attractive
lovingdead · 31-35, M
no, if you act on it then it means that there is a problem
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
Nooooooooo. I would argue the opposite is true.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
No, it means you are free from convention
SW-User
More like something is wrong with me.
AlyGar · 31-35, F
It means you're human
Afc71 · 51-55, M
I think it depends on tbe pers. I'm married, and happily so, but i crave sexual contact with others all the time and my eye wanders every single day. I don't think it means there is anything wrong with your relationship at all
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I think most people are attractive in someway. Noticing someone besides your partner has beautiful eyes, a hilarious sense of humor, a great work ethic, a fit shape etc That seems normal to me. Where I see a problem is when a partner wants to pursue another person. But it would come down to individuals experience I suppose.

 
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