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Orgasm, do women really care how they get their orgasms? How their partner helps them pleasure?

Is it really important for women to have an orgasm or orgasms through intercourse? Or it does not matter? as long as there is one or more, means to get there does not matter at all?

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I don’t really care as long as I have one.

butterflymind1 · F

yes it matters

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@butterflymind1 oh okay, and why ?

indyjoe · 56-60, M

Not all women can orgasm through intercourse or intercourse alone...and not all men can go strong enough and long enough for that to happen too. I personally have found that oral works best, along with fingers (and I can keep that up almost indefinitely). I give my wife multiple orgasms that way.

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@indyjoe Very true, lucky here.

Phillyphan78 · 41-45, F

Well you obviously want to pleasure your partner the way they like to be pleasured. But learning new ways they like to be as well is always fun.

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@Phillyphan78 yes, very true. I had read an article and thought would see if it made sense. I see most women so far responded do like penetrative orgasms vs clitoral.

Nanori · F

yes preferably through intercourse, and the more it's been worked on the longer it lasts and the deeper it goes

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jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@Nanori you do not care about the sweaty/other bodily fluid mess and prefer to cuddle right after?

Nanori · F

@jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa exactly

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@Nanori you guys are lucky, really do live the moments.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

From my limited experience, her orgasm through intercourse is more intense and satisfying. And if you know how to time it so her orgasm starts just before yours, both will be much better

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@GJOFJ3 I see, so it "G" spot stimulation inducing the orgasm, not clitoral.?

SW-User

I know my gf likes getting there different was and her reaction to each is different as well.

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@SW-User Has she indicated which one is the best?

SW-User

@jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa intercourse she would choose to go for in any, however, the most intense is another.

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@SW-User cool, so clitoral is not much of importance to her?

Shayla · F

Not all orgasms are created equal. Some are much stronger and longer lasting than others.

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@Shayla True, what makes they stronger and longer lasting the, is the function of brain or physical activity and or both, most importantly what importantly which body part creates the strongest and longest ones?

Shayla · F

@jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa It's different for different people. That said, I have had some intense orgasms from different stimulation than I thought I preferred.

Cantsayno · 56-60, M

It’s very important to learn how to please your partner. Don’t you want to always give your partner the best orgasm ?????

jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M

@Cantsayno off course, COULD NOT AGREE more. Absolutely.

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