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Is there anyone here who regrets getting married young?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Yes. Getting married at 22 was like selling my soul to the devil. You have no experience in life or even know who you are. I would have chosen being a single mom and struggling if I had to do it all over again.
Saucylover · 26-30, F
@Keepitsimple What made it so bad? Do you think it could have been resolved? Or was it doomed from the start? Now that you have had time to reflect, is there anything good that came out of it?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I got engaged 5 months after meeting him and pregnant shortly after. I was still finding things out about him that I would have called off the engagement. I married cause I was pregnant. I wasn’t in love so no resolving that but I have 3 awesome kids!@Saucylover
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
Yes, I should have been figuring out what I should do with my life instead of getting married to the wrong woman.
Saucylover · 26-30, F
Well, I am 22 years old. I will be 23 in december. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. And we have lived together for almost a year and a half. I am still in love with him. We are not married, but we might as well be. We don't plan on getting married until we are probably closer to 30 if not 30. I was asking because I wonder what makes it last and what makes it fall apart?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@saragoodtimes now that’s true! 😛
@Keepitsimple in a lousy relationship you let him cum inside you. in a great relationship you make him cum inside you
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Eeek, that’s how I wound up pregnant, good or bad 😂@saragoodtimes
Yes. I had my priorities wrong, but that's what happens when you have no guidance.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
I've decided to wait things out and not be so worried about that... no matter how long it takes. I would rather be sure than find I am stuck in a commitment that is crushing me.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@MarkPaul Good choice, otherwise you might end up like saragoodtimes husband.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@MartinTheFirst Well, I don't want to end up like that, for sure (besides I don't believe in divorce). And, thanks for the... you know... guidance.
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JBird · F
I am not married young but I am sure I would regret it if I do that. I couldn't live my life more freely.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
I'm too old for marriage now
Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M
No mine lasted 25 years
no, right now the divorce process is more enjoyable than the marriage ever was. it's going to be a blast raking him over the coals and ending up with a man who is every girls dream. I'll be laughing all the way to the bank
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@saragoodtimes damn thats nasty
SW-User
Yeah I was 21 and it didn't even last 3 years
Tobyx9 · 56-60, M
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
no, since im smart
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Many do. Do you. 🙂
Saucylover · 26-30, F
@Zonuss I actually haven't gotten married yet, and I probably won't for another 5 or 8 years. I just wanted to know because I have been with the same person for almost three years. We live together and it has been great for the most part. Sure we have our moments, but I wanted to know what makes it so bad? Is it lack of sexual partners or the primal need to mate with others? Or is it lack of communication?

 
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