What's the quickest someone apparently madly in love with you has got over you?

My women who have left me have confessed they never get over me
They had to harden their hearts to leave me
only to find out later ,,there are worse men out there
Life is not a soap or a movie ..I am not a fantasy man ,but I am a good man .
My first wife has been married 4 times ,she now admits I was her best husband and she still loves me ,,as I still love her ,,but I don't take ex's back
My last Ex and I hadn't spoken in 7 yrs ,,I grieved over loosing her everyday
But in June I agreed to speak with her ,,she has missed me too
confessed she is not happy in her current relationship
We have made plans to try dating again
But I have changed my mind ..I don't want her back either
If you can leave me ,knowing it takes me forever to get over someone
why would I trust her to not do it again
I never get over my ex's ..and apparently they don't get over me
We just agree ..we are better friends ..as friends

idk, none of them have gotten over me yet

Not something I would ever know or ever ask

Actually, I wish he'd get over me sooner.

There is no getting over me