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Would you rather marry someone whom you love, but who doesn’t love you; or marry someone who loves you, but whom you don’t love?

Poll - Total Votes: 17
You love, but doesn’t love you
You don’t love, but who does love you
Neither
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Success · 26-30, F
I love my spouse.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@Success Good
SW-User
Neither... it's a two way street
pride49 · 31-35, M
Never been loved I wouldn't know. But if rather someone be obsessed with me and love me or me be the one loving them. Basically would you rather be cheated on, or be the cheater is what this question asks
MLGecko · 46-50, M
If you offer or accept marriage when neither of the two of you are both completely in love with each other, then that is on you.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@MLGecko If you had to
MLGecko · 46-50, M
@SinlessOnslaught I chose "neither" as the option. Is neither not an option... then I would choose who loved me but I did not love so I wouldn't be continuously hurt.
I’d rather not marry either of those people
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@Freudianslip13 Option added.

But, why?
@SinlessOnslaught because why would I want to marry someone who doesn’t love me or I don’t love? The point of marriage is for two people who love each other to be together. Without it you’re both fucked
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Or marry someone who loves you just as much as you do them.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@Beautywithin If you had to
SW-User
None of the above
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@SW-User Why?
SW-User
Two reasons:
1. I really don’t want to get married again.
2. If I were, it would have to be with a woman whom I loved and loved me.

Your question is based on the premise of settling for less than mutual love, and I’m never going to settle for that.

@SinlessOnslaught
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@SW-User I was really meaning if you had to choose one
bowman81 · M
Neither is a recipe for success.
Portia · 41-45
Neither 🙄
If those were my options, I’d be happier staying single. Especially if I were young. There would be no rush to get married, just to be married. That’s a tragic situation.

 
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