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Is it okay for one person to be the decision maker in a relationship?

I usually make the decisions and have the final say on a lot of things, my boyfriend is fine and comfortable with it too.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Not in my relationship. I've experienced many different types of relationship dynamics and prefer for us to be 50/50 partners.
Darkcuckoo · 26-30, M
It still takes the other person to agree but I believe it's ok. I myself am a bit submissive so any SO i have would likely be in charge with decision making unless I have a strong stance on something.
No. It's not okay. Eventually the other person becomes resentful. From what I have seen.
@WendyLopez43 So what's the attraction? A big, muscular, buff body? Movie star good looks? A big dick? Money? Or is he just really, really so very sweet to you that it makes you melt?
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone he's both good looking and really, really so very sweet to me that it makes me melt.
@WendyLopez43 ok, enjoy him.
Yeah, whatever works in your relationship. If it works, don’t try to fix it 🙂
pointswithpinky · 46-50, M
That is an ideal arrangement. Women should always be the decision makers.
SW-User
If that's how your relationship works and both parties are happy with it, whatever.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
If you both don't have an issue then I don't think it should matter.
SW-User
Someone is going to have to make those decisions eventually
Chaoshead · 22-25, M
Yeah as long as you guys are okay with it.
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
Whatever works best for you.
I feel it coming. You wear the pants in the relationship.
Firespirit · 26-30, M
Its all about your partners relationship
Do you peg him too?
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F

 
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