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Question for men? Story time

Last night I was at a bar dancing with a guy and it was fine than I asked him for his age out of curiosity and than he asked me for mine. Fast forward he was 23 and I am 30, haha after this happened he wanted to stop dancing with me lol. I mean I think I look great and maybe even younger I have been told many times but what the heck haha why are men so afraid of numbers? I don't get it.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
My son dated somebody your age when he was 24 and she had a child. He doesn’t even keep his room clean yet. 🤷🏻‍♀️
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@Keepitsimple Haha that's true like honestly I just wanted to hangout for that night nothing else hes to young maturity wise. I like men not boys hah
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Maybe you smell bad?
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@hunkalove I doubt it
SW-User
That is one story that’s hard to believe
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@SW-User Why its true. or that's what I think happened.
Tminus6453 · M
Maybe he wants someone younger than him
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@Tminus6453 Yea that's true ;)
english · 56-60, M
immaturity its been the plague of men since time began, he probably felt intimidated more than anything, had little to do with your age, but your experience. As young men 18 to 25 fantasise about noithing else than older women, not all can pull it off especially this generation cant even hold a conversation without a phone. 🤣
GerOttman · 61-69, M
SO how does the reaction of this one particular guy get applied across the board to guys in general? Has something like this happened to you before?
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@GerOttman No it has not, I was just curious.
GerOttman · 61-69, M
@JaneCas I spent a night with a 32 year old woman when I was 24. It was a good night! I was aware she was older than me, but it didn't 'scare me off' or cause any difference in how I thought of her. I think you just found a guy with a slight personality issue.
Cuda6868 · 51-55, M
He wasn’t too bright. I always looked for the 30+ women back in the day. Dynamite in bed and not afraid to voice their wants 👍🏻
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
Not sure why he isn't just amaze that you look so much younger. I would be loving it if you told me you were older than you looked
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
When I was 21-22, I remember thinking it was pretty cool when an "older girl" wanted to spend some time with me.
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@NotJamieM Really that's quite funny
b22065 · 46-50, M
When I was 20, all I wanted was women your age. Now I'm 50 and still want women your age :-)
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Perhaps you're over thinking it and he just really had to go to the rest room.
SW-User
He’s definitely not a wise person
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@SW-User Yea I totally got that.
he was just insecure.. nothing to do with attraction.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Sounds like he is insecure.
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@Degbeme Lol I dunno.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Young man with a brain of a 7 year old
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
Immature young man for sure.
SW-User
Who knows, I don't understand it.
Sicarium · 46-50, M
It was one guy...
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@Sicarium Yea I know :)
drymer · 56-60, M
The guy is stupid.
TacoCat · 22-25, M
He must be gay
SW-User
He's a moron.
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
I couldn't give you an answer because, to me, once you reach as certain threshold of mental maturity, it is just that: a number. Heck, 7 years isn't even that much of a gap. If he can't handle that, then I guess he isn't really worth it.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Yep, if you’re stood in front of me and I get a ‘woody’, as far as i’m concerned, age is just a number
strongbow · 46-50, M
Same reason why some women will turn their nose when they find out the earning potential of a future mate, its all about preferance

 
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