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Doesn’t being attracted to someone else mean the relationship is not working?

Oh hell no it's human nature to look at eye candy has nothing to do with love.
JBird · F
I was attracted to a celebrity while in a relationship. Granted at the time, I was in a LDR and felt I was not getting enough attention from my partner. I told him immediately about it and we worked it out. I still have crush on the celebrity but it doesn't affect my relationship anymore or love for my fiance.
Kwek00 · 41-45, M
@JBird 🙄 sounds a bit cwazy
JBird · F
@Kwek00 😂
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
Never happened personally to me.
But yes, I ended some relationships where that happened to the other one.
So they could pursue all the atractions they had, just except me.
Not quite an extreme limit to their freedom and dating pool, IMO.
Not necessarily. If you're in a place of being attracted to someone, that place might be expressed anywhere. It has nothing to do with an agreement you might have with someone.
suchaslife · F
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Not really. You can be in a relationship and attracted to someone else. But that doesn't mean the other person is good relationship material.

If you are with the right person you want to stay in the relationship.
No but maybe yes. If you find other people attractive it’s normal even in a relationship because you don’t suddenly stop being human. If you’re actually attracted it might be cause for concern.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
I always thought attraction was something you had no control over.
suchaslife · F
@AthrillatheHunt That's true
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
I’ve always been attracted to curvy women. When I was young I got a lot of grief from male friends because of this. Many times as a youngster I wish I had been attracted to skinny Minnie’s just to seem normal.
That was then.@suchaslife
suchaslife · F
@AthrillatheHunt Best to stay true to yourself
xRedx · M
That's a possible reason. Of course we would need to dive more into the person's behaviour patterns and such get a more concrete answer.
SW-User
I think it depends on the level of attraction. Is it more than you just look at them and say to yourself they are an attractive person?
Mona86 · C
no, you're just finding excuses, to leave. Don't do they otherwise you'll regret it!!!
suchaslife · F
@Mona86 😇
in10RjFox · M
Nope.. it only means a new relationship is to begin .. like one movie is over and we are ready for the next ..
That's exactly what it means!
suchaslife · F
@EugenieLaBorgia hard truth but good to know :)
@suchaslife If people took to wearing blinkers and feeding from a nose-bag, there would be less divorces and infidelities!
suchaslife · F
@EugenieLaBorgia hehehehe😂
MayaHope · 41-45, F
It depends

Like fancying George Ezra is allowed isn’t it?
jaymic64 · M
That is probably why the attraction started
I don’t know. Isn’t bound to happen?
suchaslife · F
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
It’s human to find people attractive. It’s doing something about it that spells danger for a relationship @suchaslife
Not necessarily. Married isn’t buried, after all. (Attracted also doesn’t include the imperative to [b]act[/b] upon that attraction. It passes.)

 
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