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Am I not meant to have children?

All six of my pregnancies have ended in miscarriage. Each one hurts me more than the last. I can’t do this anymore.
I am so very sorry... I can only imagine how painfully it can effect your emotions .. ..

But honestly, if you want to become a mother, there are so many children who have been brought to this world and have no parents or proper ones.... there is nothing wrong with adopting....

You will love them as much as your biological kids and they will love you as much as their biological parents.... what you will do for them as mom is what makes you a mom...

Good luck with your next pregnancy anyway...
SW-User
Maybe you should look into adoption. There's lots of kids who need homes and loving parents.
I had an aunt that had 16 or 19 miscarriages.. But she had two sons ten years apart

She lived in colorado tho and i heard miscarriages were high in general around that area because of power plants out there (i forget if they were nucular power plants or what) but something about the toxins

There was another place too but i forget were

I had a miscarriage once and it about killed me so ..

My sympathies on having to go through that over and over .. I cant even imagine 😳
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Reflection2 · 41-45, M
I am sorry to hear. I also not meant to have kids. Not for me
suchaslife · F
Try to be gentle with yourself. I am deeply sorry for your loss :( , you did nothing wrong.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
That’s awful. What does the doctor say about it?
lxvley · F
@Zeuro that my body is the problem, basically. We’ve only had success with IVF, as stressful as it is, but then lost the heartbeat at 5 months.
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
Oh girl, I’m so sorry. I hope you get that baby that you are trying for.
SW-User
In vitro??
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@SW-User that could still result in miscarriage...
SW-User
@Zeuro It could But there are other procedures to prevent it...
lxvley · F
@SW-User already gone through the process once, there were no procedures to prevent it happening.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
Damn.

Talk to the doc?
Sorry for your losses
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