How do I stop screwing it up with women?

I think I blew it again with another woman. I can’t even manage to get a first date. She said I seemed fun( I don’t know how),and then i was apparently being bossy about her going to college and I wouldn’t meet her half way on any dates we planned and I only wanted to do what I wanted to do. How do I stop screwing it up with women and how do I start being a decent human being?

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SoFine · 46-50, F

The place to begin, is your own worth of self. As you are the one to validate you.

1. Know they self
2. Love they self (not in an obsessed way )

With females: show these traits
1. Be kind
2. Be funny
3. Be balanced
4. Be healthy
5. Be consideration

Find interesting facts and hobbies you can share about. Be your own best friend. To have or not to have a GF does not make you a better person, how you be in you, that counts.

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VulcanGalaxy · 26-30, M

Yeah I’m not that stupid. She already thinks I don’t value her wants or opinions.

xixgun · M

Don't change a damned thing. To make sure she likes you, then you have to BE you.
She'll change anything about you she doesn't like.

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