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Why would a guy tell you you look amazing then a few weeks later tell you you need to gain weight?

Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
Because he specializes in douchebaggery, assholery, knobjockery, bellendery, and dickheadery.
samanthasmokes · 36-40, F
@Sassy55
I asked him that since I thought he liked my bod the way it was. He apologized and admitted that he preferred a "softer" body with a larger ass like other girls he was with in the past. Mine was a little too toned and athletic for his tastes. We parted friends.

C'est la vie! After all, a person likes what they like....you have no control over that.
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
This guy likes big booty. This guy isn’t my boyfriend thankfully. My ex preferred me thinner. I’m glad you parted friends. Wonder what softer body means. @samanthasmokes
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Tell him to get a bit taller, lean and a bigger savings account as well.
Did you lose weight over the last few weeks? Did he see you naked or more exposed over the last few weeks and thus noticed the need to gain weight? If his tone was malicious, than ignore him. If it was more caring and concerned, then maybe he's worried.
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
I don’t think I lost weight but we had got physically closer :( I don’t get it though I thought I looked good. @FigNewton
@Sassy55 In all honesty, you probably do look good! How you feel about yourself is what is important. Tell someone "your should gain/lose weight" is not the most subtle way to approach the issue anyhow. I would most likely ask if you were comfortable with your weight...or "if you could change anything, what would you change?"....that way he can gage YOUR desires better.

You look good...I'm sure of it!
redredred · M
@Sassy55 If you look good to you, you probably do look good. Trust yourself
redredred · M
because he's not very bright or possibly a recent head injury.
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Sassy55 · 41-45, F
I said I was too thin they said no i wasn’t t@SW-User
@SW-User Only a jerk would want the woman to feel bad about herself.
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
He filled me with that bull crap for months. @bijouxbroussard
Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M
Maybe he saw you naked and you look different naked? Idk there’s no telling
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
He didn’t @Ryanoliver2011
Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M
@Sassy55 then I have only one other possibility that I can think of. Maybe he’s one of those people that goes back and forth with things like if he was looking to buy a new car maybe one week he wants a white one and then the next he changes his mind and wants a red one. Honestly idk
ticklerguy · M
Maybe different outfits both times?
He got a new pair of glasses? 🤣
Amylynne · 26-30, F
manipulation
Sassy55 · 41-45, F
He does like bigger women. He’s known I was thin for months though @Amylynne
Amylynne · 26-30, F
@Sassy55 so maybe a personal preferecne? I fight weight issues a lot.
on the stationary 2 hours today
Because he’s a jerk.

 
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