Interracial relationship advice?

Honestly, if race is an issue in y'all's relationship, just stop dating now, because it's honestly the most dumb issue to have with someone you're supposed to love.

That's a red flag waving in your face. I think you don't need someone calling you names unfairly and stupdily.

I am not sure you can come back from that. Honestly. I would not be able to. Especially if it was said out of spite. That says a lot about him, in my opinion.

I would also feel fucking sick if my SO of another race truly thought I had done or said something they could consider racist.

Well I don’t really know what you did, so I can’t analyze the situation correctly

I can tell you are hurt by what he said but all relationships need work especially young relationships. If your relationship is rocky on a regular basis though and he's only saying things out of spite it might not be a good relationship for you.Sometimes we got to move on even when our heart doesn't want to I wish I'd realized that years before I did in my first marriage. We shouldn't stay where we are not happy.

If he can call u that, is the love really there?

What did you do to make him you call you racist?

What actually happened?

He sounds stupid. You chose him.

I'd be REALLY pissed. That's just wrong. Dump his ass. Doing anything out of spite in a relationship shows just how thoughtless and selfish someone is.

If he can't control his anger, says things out of spite and for effect, it's probably best to move on from him.

That's just a weird thing to say.