Are you afraid of falling in love again? By being cheated or betrayed?

raysam363 · 31-35, F

I'm nowhere near ready, I can barely trust people. But, six years is a long time to have it end suddenly with lots of cheating and betrayal. I'm not afraid, I just don't see a good reason anymore.

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

I feel you 🙌🏼@raysam363

LithiumDrop

Yeah, I don’t want to get played like a fiddle...😂 How does one ever know?

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

Yep no one knows the truth until some shit happens@LithiumDrop

whateverhappens · 26-30, F

Yes sigh

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

🤗@whateverhappens

Phillyphan78 · 41-45, F

I'm in love so no I'm not afraid to. Having been betrayed in the past, it's always in the back of your mind but you can't let the person you fall in love with pay for the sins of another.

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

But how do you move to another . Don’t you feel being cautious always with the present person comparing with the past relationship @Phillyphan78

SW-User

I'm afraid of the opening up part of love. Not love itself.

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Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

So you take your time to let someone close to you?which is understandable @SW-User

SW-User

@Lonelymanik Lots of time. Even if they are close, it doesn't mean I'm fully open.

Once I'm fully open with someone, I expect them not to hurt me. I'm very guarded

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

Yea I have been on that situation a lot and got hurt badly even as a friend which is why I prefer being lonely even though it sucks so bad@SW-User

Eddiesolds · 61-69, M

Lonelymanik · 31-35, M

I like your confidence.@Eddiesolds

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