Just meeting someone?

Just met a great guy and went on a date with him over the weekend 2 days in a row. 😍
After the weekend ended him and I message each other once a day or once every other day. Trying not to have anxiety or anything, but this kind of communication is normal right? As in you don't have to message each other early morning and then at night. Just when you have the time?

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SW-User

Id bombard him until he gets rid of me 🥴

Asm0deus · F

😂😂 @SW-User

SW-User

@Asm0deus [i][b]That's how you know he loves youuu 🎶🎵[/b][/i]

LesserUgly

Normal is relative. Anxiety though will kill development. Overthinking will kill possibilities. These two things will absolutely change your interaction. Just go with the flow as it is until it works or doesn't work. Good luck. :)

MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

Seems normal to me, have you been on date number 3 yet

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@MrAverage1965 nope we don't talk anymore at all. I'm good without him!

MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

@SaraxKay it's good you feel that way.

EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M

@SaraxKay Sorry he didn't work out like you hoped. You seem awesome!

UserNameSW · 46-50, M

Send as often as you are comfortable with

pentacorn · F

casual is normal. normal is nice.

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

No worries

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

Yes

MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

once a day? like just one message?

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Threepio

@SaraxKay I must be living on another planet. I would much rather call and have a "real" conversation.

And while some of you "youngers" will disagree, a lifetime of being a leader of men (and privy to their innermost thoughts) has taught me that men appreciate the feeling of being chased (wanted/pursued) once in a while. Trust me … if he has any interest in you... you are not going to scare him away...

So find something "relevant" that is worthy of a real phone conversation (even if it is as simple as telling him you want to try bowling or something = Oh look a date opportunity and they even have food and a bar..) ... So take a deep breath, put your anxiety in your back pocket, and dial up ol' Clayton's number.

He can't read your mind and he can't hear the inflection in your voice when you text..... wanna start connecting = call.

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

@Threepio Thank you so much!!! 💙

SaraxKay · 26-30, F

Perfect advice

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