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Are guys nervous to eat in front of women?

I've noticed that the guys I've been with always seem to have little to no appetite even if we've spent the whole day together haven't had anything. I feel weird bashing food when they aren't joining me but I'm a human who needs food!

Or they will eat but they like do something weird like sit behind me or slightly forward so that I'm behind them.

Is this a thing? Do guys get nervous to eat in front of me or am I being paranoid?
JupiterDreams · 31-35
He could be a cannibal and wished the meat he'd ordered was Human, thus lost his appetite upon seeing it wasn't.
coffeedimplez · 26-30, F
@JupiterDreams A lovely Dream
I have no idea but I can state without a doubt I have no issues with eating when hungry regardless of who I'm with. It's just if I'm on a first date I'll probably say we should go get something like sushi instead of something like chicken wings where I'll end up looking like a messy pig haha.
jomsim · 26-30, M
I don't get nervous but people I've been out with commented that I didn't order meat, just had a salad, or skipped a starter or dessert. The main reason is that if you don't know how the evening is going to end, you don't want to feel queasy from a full stomach. Plus, I don't like to eat a lot of food in one go, anyway.
jomsim · 26-30, M
@Peppa Well, that's how most of my dates end. This could be coded language for "her running away from me".
Peppa · 31-35, F
@jomsim stop chasing them lmao
jomsim · 26-30, M
@Peppa I'll try it but I have to say, I don't think that will make them stop running. :P
SW-User
If I get over the initial panic of talking to them, then no, eating in front of them won't be much problem, tho I'll probably refrain from eating like a medieval...
Sounds like guys might be intimidated by you 🤔.
Glossy · F
An ex boyfriend of mine who was so nervous when he was with me that he could hardly eat anything, especially fizzy drinks. We were twenty years old, give or take a year or two. I only discovered this fact when I spoke to him again many years later.
coffeedimplez · 26-30, F
@Glossy Aww
SW-User
I’ve never noticed this
Once when I was young I went to a Burger Joint with a girl and said "Get what ever you want" I always wanted to say that. She ordered I and I knew I didn't have enough money to buy anything for myself. Hahahahhaahhahaa, dumb right??
SW-User
There's a guy at work who isn't scared to do anything in front of a woman. Eat, make bodily noises...nothing!
It's not a thing, they must just be memorized by your presence.
coffeedimplez · 26-30, F
@Pitchblue lol sure
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
Hmm I'd say norm this would be a female not so much Male thing
coffeedimplez · 26-30, F
@Beautywithin That's what I thought
SilentShadow0110 · 31-35, F
Maybe they are getting nervous and you noticed it.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
I get nervous and eat really less in public areas
SW-User
I'm nervous to eat in front of men.
Northwest · M
No, it's not a thing.
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
Maybe they aint be gotten no manners and eat like slobs ....
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Heck no. When Im on a date they usually eat more intensely than I do. 🙂
Peppa · 31-35, F
@Zonuss im hiding
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Peppa From who ?
Peppa · 31-35, F
@Zonuss babbayeyga
Sounds lie you date weird guys.
DDonde · 31-35, M
When I'm nervous, I tend to eat less in general. If you're talking about early on in a relationship anyway.
None of the guys I’ve known have been even [b]slightly[/b] nervous. 😅

 
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