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How can you get rid of a crush?

I have been at this thing (not gonna describe it much) and there is one girl I've been talking to (as friends). I realized today that my feelings are stronger than friendship. I didn't tell her, out of fear. For some reason, having these feelings towards her feels wrong.
Reject · 26-30, M Best Comment
Is she interested in girls? If so then there's nothing wrong with seeing if she likes you back.
Reject · 26-30, M
@fluteacorn Hmm, well next time you're talking to her, just ask about her dating life. Maybe talk about yours first if you like. You could say you need some advice or something if you don't want to be too obvious. Like... maybe tell her how you have trouble talking about stuff like that and ask if she can recommend ways to boost confidence. There's a lot of ways to get into the topic of relationships with people.
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@Reject I'm gonna try that.
Reject · 26-30, M
@fluteacorn Go for it girl! I wish you luck. If nothing else, you won't have to regret not trying.

firefall · 61-69, M
if you find out how to get rid of a crush, patent it and you'll be rich beyond dreams :(

But ... why do you feel it's wrong in this case?
firefall · 61-69, M
@fluteacorn Oh. The age gap could be a problem, I can see that. As for whether she likes girls, that's .... always a roll of the dice, but a polite inquiry should be acceptable in either case
Uh. If you're out yourself, that is, obv
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@firefall I'm partially out but the people at this thing don't know.
firefall · 61-69, M
@fluteacorn ah that makes quite the difference
LyricalOne · F
Time and distraction. Although she could feel the same way about you.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Honestly time, distractions, or a new crush. The feelings aren't permanent even if a crush can be pretty overwhelming.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Talk for a few weeks and you’ll quickly outgrow it once you know them.
fluteacorn · 22-25, F
@Keepitsimple How though
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Usually after a few weeks you get bored or discover you don’t like them after all.@fluteacorn
SW-User
by remembering that nobody is that special
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
I haven’t had a crush on anyone ... felt like crushing a few people though
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Y thank u

 
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