Am I overreacting? I’ve been talking to a guy for almost two weeks now but we’re not at the dat...

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

Sometimes men just get busy and they don't stop to think about "how it looks." They don't read into it the same. I figured that out over time.

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Maybe, maybe not .. It never hurts to ask, but at the same times people don't like being pressured... The bottom line is this communicate differently, there's often less of it lol... Do don't judge him by our standards or he will come up short... And one more thing, don't out all your eggs in one basket, keep doing the things you like and if he comes along, great

Ynotisay · M

Since you asked, no. It wasn't right. That is, if he's a man who doesn't appreciate undue pressure from a woman. You're already at "lack of communication' with a guy you haven't even gone out with. Sorry. But that's a big red flag.

JimboUk · 31-35, M

Your overthinking because you are excited at the possibilities.
You stated yourself the pair of you arent at the dating stage yet, plus he has work to complete and family events to celebrate.

Of course there will be distance between you during that time but it doesn't mean he has lost interest.

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FlowerchildK16 · 22-25, F

. When we first started talking, out of nowhere, he said if it’s okay with you I would like to take you out sometime.

SW-User

A date is just a date. It's okay to
ask questions, but I think a healthy perspective is to not romanticize a date. Real life does happen, and honestly, friends are better

Spoiledbrat · F

I think it’s okay. You were just trying to see where you stand with him. There is no sense in spending time with him if his interests end up being different than yours. What I would have probably done is not text him or talk with him on the phone.