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How did your second love compare to your first love?

Better or worse? Who do/did you love more and why?
rckt14861-69, M Best Comment
I asked my first wife to marry me when I was 16
Though we were together 10 yrs and 3 girls
sadly we divorced in 1983
My second wife I was madly in love with ,but she wanted kids and I didn't (I had 3 I was paying support for I couldn't see )I also had a lot of health issues ,and addictions
We only made it 7 yrs ,She finally forgave me about 8 yrs ago She now has 2 kids by another man she is no longer with nor did she ever remarry ,,she says her kids are all she needs
( I wish now we had became parents together )
She was an answer to prayer ,but I screwed it up
My first wife and I are friends again ,,and I have a son now
his Mom and I are no longer together either ,,but we remain friends
She was so impressed with how my first wife and I got along ,
it made things easier when we decided to split up
We share our son ,,we are friends also
Who do I love the most ?wife #2 ,,she was an angel who married a demon who has since changed his ways
My sons Mom and I split up after 15 yrs ,,she is an addict
She choose drugs over our son and I ,,but she is better now
we are just better apart ,then we were together ,,our son has the best of 2 worlds ,,and 2 parents who love him very much
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@rckt148 Loved the story.

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My relationship with my first love was strange and very cold. We never expressed feelings or got affectionate. He tried but I didn鈥檛 let him, he ended up hurting me and he took all the blame. I kind of screwed things up too, nobody wants to stay with a cold person. My second love is my soulmate, it鈥檚 much better in every ways 馃槉
MontanamanM
@SW-User Smiles馃槉馃
SapphicHeartF
@SW-User 馃槼
MontanamanM
My First Love, I was 18, she was 16, with a 6-month-old baby.
She was a stunning blonde, started dating, took her to prom, got married after I graduated, joined the navy to support my little family, adopted the boy, who by the way, still carries my name.
The marriage dissolved in its 9th year when I caught her cheating. I got custody of all three children.

My second love, I found my soulmate. Plain and simple. 31+ years. I was 28, she was 18. She fell in love with my kids first. Raised them.
So yeah, A winner second time around. 馃尮馃挄
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@Montanaman That put a smile on my face
MontanamanM
@SW-User Smiles馃槉 I'm glad, i love making others smiles馃
SW-User
@Montanaman and your wife is so pretty
MontanamanM
@SW-User 馃挒thank you, She is beautiful.

"Define Beauty"

Beauty is...The way the wind blows your hair into your face at the start of a summer storm. The rain begins to fall gently at first, then pouring down with big droplets as big as your eyes. You smile and laugh as the downpour causes your make-up to run, you could care less, you're having too much fun. Afterwards, the storm's past- You bite your lip with a pouty frown, the bare flesh underneath your clinging wet dress visible and tempting. You... [b]All packaged in a size eighteen,[/b] you are with out a doubt the most beautiful creature that I've ever seen.


-Kelly.
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@Montanaman 馃
MontanamanM
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i dont want to compare them cuz they are both amazing people in their own way. i only wish them happiness and the best in life 馃惐
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@Dewms thats sweet
EmeraldOdinelle22-25, F
Same-ish I think, they were the same time so I dunno
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They were really different people who gave me different things entirely. So my love is somewhat equal, even though I have some preference for my second in how she opened me, but my first loved me unconditionally and woke me to up someone to could really care for you.
wackidywack22-25
what is a love
MontanamanM
@DarkSideoftheMoon and i have faith that you'll find him, he will find you.馃憤馃挒
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@Montanaman doubt it but thx
MontanamanM
@DarkSideoftheMoon ah, but you have little faith.
Listen to me when i tell you,
I know things.馃憤馃槑馃槈
BeefySenpieM
I loved them more which made it worse in the end
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@BeefySenpie why did it make it worse
BeefySenpieM
@DarkSideoftheMoon They chose to end it
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@BeefySenpie oh sorry
midnightsun26-30, M
I'm indifferent.

I don't compare women except in one situation - who got the sexier body
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@midnightsun take my word
midnightsun26-30, M
@DarkSideoftheMoon since you say it. ok.

But I should be the judge
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@midnightsun 馃檲
JacksonBlue31-35, M
Better. The first one I was young and didn't know what I wanted in life. By the second time I was more confident in myself so I could be myself a lot more.

Also she was hotter haha
Chaoshead22-25, M
I actually got to SMANG it so it was better 馃槫
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@Chaoshead you didnt get to smang the first one?
Chaoshead22-25, M
@DarkSideoftheMoon Nah too young I was like 14. 馃槄
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@Chaoshead oh ok. Makes sense
SW-User
First love I let my heart do the talking, second love o gave over the reigns to my little head
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@SW-User ok馃檭
rckt14861-69, M
Thanks for the BA
Have a good one 馃尵
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Love is not like that.
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@SW-User how does it work then?
SailorMarzF
Uffffffff...馃槒
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F
@SailorMarz great answer
It couldn鈥檛 be compared. Two completely different people, two completely different situations. And almost 17 years between.
DarkSideoftheMoon31-35, F

 
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