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I like this girl but I think she might be dating someone - though I can't really tell

idk she posts like, really cryptic stuff on instagram story, and you literally can't tell who's in the picture, where they are, and stuff like that and it's like wth it looks like an accidental picture. My school's really small so I feel like people would know if she was dating anyone, and based on our conversations it doesn't seem like it. But there have been multiple instances that lead me to think that she [i]is[/i] dating someone. Can't really tell though and it's quite frustrating yay.

I've officially reached the point in my crush where it causes me nothing but misery. Which means it'll probably end soon. I guess. But with my previous crush it took a whole month of misery, not seeing her, and finding this new current crush to get over her. So how am I gna get over this one?

I feel like dying in a hole :)

I don't feel like chasing after her anymore cuz I'm not the kind to go after someone in a relationship, but like yeah. We kinda talk now, like she initiates convos sometimes and we literally text during classes and complain about useless classes. Idk how to get over her quick. Idw to cut her off because a lot of my old crushes end up becoming some of my closest friends, and she's a nice kid.

Help :-)
JupiterDreams · 31-35
I would just ask if she's dating someone. Act casual. From there, work out a plan.
LadyGemini · F
Just ask if she’s single
firelaw · 22-25, F
@LadyGemini Actually I have a pretty good opportunity to ask is she's dating someone that's still available to me until her instagram story disappears, but I don't actually want to know aha. She's definitely not as interested in me ahaha and the crush has reached like.. this unpleasant zone, at this point I just wanna get over it
Zonuss · 41-45, M
This was good. But it's not working you idiot. The story is much deeper than this. 🙂
firelaw · 22-25, F
firelaw · 22-25, F
@Zonuss well, if the story is to be completed then:
fast forward to now (yes she was dating a guy, they're still dating), I came out to her in august after coming out in school, and she told me she was questioning if she was bi. She kept the fact that she was dating him so low-key I almost forgot about it, and we also started talking almost every day. Within two months of talking to her every day I fell for her - ish. I told her on the last day of school and she gave me a hug. Now I'm taking time to myself to get over it so we can go back to being friends. (When I told our common friend about it she joked that it was rly funny cuz it almost seemed as if she went 'ofc you have a crush on me why wouldn't you'.) I'm not sure about how I feel now, as much as I like her and wanted to be with her, I never really expected anything to happen - or wanted it to cuz i don't respect ppl who cheat. I really really care for her and her being happy is rly impt to me. So I find myself taking comfort in the fact that her bf seems to be a rly nice guy and their rls seems great.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@firelaw Man. Find somebody else. 😂

 
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