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Salix75 路 46-50, F
marriage is hard work. having a baby is hard work.
The only "upshot" is that as a man, you have an easier time walking out if you can't hack it as the system generally favours leaving the child with the mother (another issue in and of itself I won't get into here)
The only "upshot" is that as a man, you have an easier time walking out if you can't hack it as the system generally favours leaving the child with the mother (another issue in and of itself I won't get into here)
Miram 路 31-35, F
Don't bring a baby into this world if you aren't ready to tend to the risks and the legal accountability.
Marriage isn't more difficult than tending to the needs of a new life
Marriage isn't more difficult than tending to the needs of a new life
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Miram 路 31-35, F
@Zonuss Also it is kind of sound reckless to me to decide they will be fine. You are taking it recklessly. The best parents that I met are those who question if they are doing good instead of assuming it out of convenience.
I do realize these are harsh words but I am sure you can handle it.
I do realize these are harsh words but I am sure you can handle it.
Budwick 路 70-79, M
Your way nearly ensures failure in life.
At least finish high school, get a full-time job and wait until age 21 to get married and have children.
Only 2% of people following this formula end up in poverty. Nearly 75鈥塸ercent have joined the middle class (defined as earning around $55,000 or more per year).
But, I'm sure everything will work out just fine for you.
At least finish high school, get a full-time job and wait until age 21 to get married and have children.
Only 2% of people following this formula end up in poverty. Nearly 75鈥塸ercent have joined the middle class (defined as earning around $55,000 or more per year).
But, I'm sure everything will work out just fine for you.
MissTaken 路 36-40, F
You鈥檇 be unique and worth a fortune if you had a baby married or not 馃槀
LucyFuhr 路 56-60, F
Kids don't come with a guarantee either.
(just sayin')
(just sayin')
PoizonApple 路 41-45, F
Whatever, just don't pierce your nose
RobG22 路 51-55, M
It depends on your commitment to her. If you are truly in love her and both feel like with bringing a child into the world. I would say yes 馃憤. Give it a try. Sometimes it takes awile. Visit doctors. See if your sperm are active swimmers and if she is able to get pregnant and can carry a child. Both get green flags. Go for it. Anything else talk to the doctors and see what can or can't be done. Good luck.
Best to get pregnant now zonuss
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otto78 路 51-55, M
馃 [i][b]What's best for the baby?[/b][/i]
Poppies 路 61-69, F
Baby first can work out, but I think it鈥檚 better for children to have the stability of parents who are committed to each other. I know not all marriages work out nowadays, but I think it鈥檚 better to carefully choose your partner, make the commitment and do your best.