Excuse for meetup

Hiya. So I'm going on a holiday for a week with friends, but there's also someone I have been talking to online who I want to meet whilst I am there. I don't want to tell my friends about it, so I need an excuse to get a few hours alone so I can meet this person. I've thought about just saying "I'm going to do some shopping on my own" but I think they'd find that strange and start asking me loads of questions since we're going to be doing everything together. Thanks for any suggestions.

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Mindful · 56-60, F

Wait and just take a detour. Tell them you’re talking to a new girl on the phone in private? Or calling your mom or sister about something personal? I’d pretend to get a call and tell The to just “go on with out you” that you'll catch up with them. Try to make it as impromptu and unexpected as possible. But I think you’ll have to give up some info such as “it’s this friend who just called.”
It also safer.
Dude
Be careful.
If you haven’t heard her voice it’s not safe.

Also leave a note behind in your hotel room under your pillow or amongst your personal belongings in your bag as a major clue should you go missing for ANy reason. You could get in a car accident. Ya never know.

I wish you didn’t feel the need to hide the info ... but I get it.

sofalo · 22-25, M

@Mindful thanks for the advice :)

Mindful · 56-60, F

Sure. Keep us posted here! Let us know you’re okay@sofalo

sofalo · 22-25, M

@Mindful Will do. The trip isn't until a few weeks yet, so I've got a bit of time to think it through.

Mindful · 56-60, F

Have you heard her voice?@sofalo

sofalo · 22-25, M

@Mindful not yet, but we've been chatting for a while

Mindful · 56-60, F

Does she’s know you are coming?@sofalo