What do you do when your mental issues once again disrupt your relationships?

I have basically all of my relationships destroyed by my issues. SO now I have friends who don't know anything about them. Last night, he broke up with me because of the same issues yet I don't really feel like I can be friends with someone who knows so much about me, knowing that they will also ruin the friendship I have as well. I feel like a bloody warning walking around. He thinks I don't feel the same about him anymore but I do. Im just utterly devastated at this point.

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Spoiledbrat · F Best Comment

I’ve kept things from people before and regretted it later because it was just me being me and I shouldn’t have ever felt like I should have to keep [i]me[/i] things from people. There are always some things I’ll probably always keep to myself and that’s okay. I think what I’m trying to say is you have to not only be you but like you too before you find the [i]right[/i] people. Otherwise, the things you aren’t sharing will affect your relationships when they do get shared. It’s just a matter of time.

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Maybe you just need time. We're not always ready for everything at the moment

Reject · 26-30, M

I would stay out of all relationships until you fix your issues. It's a big mistake to think finding someone will save you. You have to save yourself.

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Reject · 26-30, M

@Colourflame Just making sure you knew, what is the point of it then?

Colourflame · 18-21, F

Because I love him and want to give him the best of me and a good time with me. If possible a future together too

Reject · 26-30, M

@Colourflame Hmm. I'm not sure what your issues are, but this post makes them seem like the extreme kind. Resolving them should be your priority. Even before him. If you try to be there for him instead he'll only become another victim of your problems. Work on yourself for him if you wish, but don't give him anything until you're better off.

tddyd9 · 61-69, M

It sounds like you are up front with your closest friends about your emotional issues, then you have a falling out and they know your personal stuff. You are aware of who you are, that is powerful. You will find the right person. Go slow be your own best friend, you will find your compatible partner.Be friendly but hold back, you have the power. Patience is your friend

RPFeeder · 36-40, M

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