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She loves me, but only when she's drunk?

That girl I've been dating (I guess) for a while now has sent me a lot of drunk voice messages before, telling me how cute I was and calling me her "almost boyfriend" in front of her friends, and last week at her birthday party she got drunk once again, became really affectionate and even kissed me. When she's sober however, she doesn't really seem all that interested in me, has made it clear that she isn't ready for a relationship yet and doesn't want to be more than friends...
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AudreyLynn · 31-35, F
Hey, a woman here giving you my story from a swapped genders POV. (also, OP, please try to ignore a few of these misogynistic replies above).

A good friend of mine acted similarly to me. We connected very deeply and often kissed but only ever after he had a few drinks. It started to mess with my head and I built it up to be something it wasn't. I imagined a relationship with this guy even though he was totally wrong for me. I was blinded by the affection that I was shown in the moment and mistook it for him taking a deep investment in me. My advice? Try and shut down the drunken affection. Explain that it upsets you when she only shows interest in you when she's drunk and let her know that you'd be interested in talking it out when your both sober. I wish I would have done this, and I wish I would have listened to my friends when they told me to do it too. Good luck, bud!
funfan · 46-50, M
@AudreyLynn Audrey, thanks so much for taking the time to write such a thoughtful comment. You will certainly do well here in our diverse online community. :)
UndeliverMe · 31-35, M
Shes using you man, woman are emotional, biologically controlled creatures. They will manipulate to get what they want whether it would be good or bad for the person they're getting it from. I mean, unless shes a good one, but she doesn't sound good.
Trust me, if some one better looking or better in any way came along and showed interest in her. She would forget you in a heartbeat.
Don't be too available or be a supporter, blue pill simp male.
Look out for you and always put your interests first.
SW-User
she's using you
Primnproper · 56-60, F
She's keeping you on the hook..it's classic, she wants some attention and affection rather than none which until someone comes along that she really wants she can get this attention from you. Don't be her go to boy find someone better that appreciates you.
Bagalamaga · 56-60, M
She is just keeping you around to be her cushion I think. Here is how to lay that woman: bring another woman into the picture.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Need to let that go, man, you’re being a suckah.
“Almost boyfriend” wtf is that bs!? 😂😂
so move on

you just gave all the info necessary, if you need an ok to go ahead, I grant you absolution, etc.
monkeysdevil007 · 46-50, M
Buy an off licence ,she will love you forever
Emanuelle · 36-40, F
Forget about her asap. She is no good

 
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