Why do some people views single moms as a bad women?

Because there is a horrible stigma on women where you must be a perfect mom but if a dad changes a diaper once he is a great father

My eldest son is 18 now. He has a good apprenticeship and is doing well.

I left his dad when he was a baby because his dad was a criminal. If I'd stayed my son would probably be a criminal now too.

I've raised all my four children basically alone. The father of the younger ones would never live with me even though he wanted to marry me which is stupid.

After years I found out partially the reason he didn't want to live with me is because he was involved in criminal activity too. I ended that relationship too.

My children are better with just me. I 100% believe that. They are happy, engage at school, social. We do everything a family with two parents would do.

The thing they lack is seeing a healthy relationship example. I can't give them that because I have this extremely fantastic knack of picking terrible men. All I can do is tell them things I've read and hope that "if you can't do it teach it applies"

So you have faith in yourself. Do your best. Your best is good enough. You don't have to be perfect, good enough. Others have inaccurate opinions, that's their problem, focus on you and your son because he's the next generation which is far more important than the opinions from past generations.

Well my daughter is 6 years old and I've always been a single Mom. And I don't give a shit what anybody thinks about me. I take care of and support my daughter very well on my own.

What. The. Actual. Fuck.

Oh wait...
I have seen this before. Your relatives must like the idea that you would consider staying in a bad relationship because of this thing called Stockholm Syndrome.
You know...it's okay to tell them to fuck off...
Of course, you don't have to say it that way either, but this is [b][i]your life[/i][/b]; only you have a say in what happens.

#AnarchistLogic

tbh it makes people feel inferior, especially if you do it sucessfully... because most women cant do it without a dude supporting them and most dudes think they actually contribute to parenting

Some people think that they're irresponsible for getting pregnant with the wrong man and hence indirectly/directly affecting the future of the child.

May be your relatives are jealous of you .

Your relatives sound just as toxic as your previous relationship. I know it's hard but shield yourself from them. Let them speak, but don't give importance to whatever they say/do about it.

There could be a number of reasons why someone is a single parent, such as their partner died, ran out on them or they took their kids out of an abusive environment etc.

There's a lot of statistics that shows single moms are bad for children

Be the best you can for yourself and your baby. Don’t worry about what others think.

Just be you and do your best.. That's all we can do

Maybe they just wonder why you had a child in an unhappy relationship. I wonder about this with some women to. Maybe it wasn’t bad before you had the baby I don’t know but it soon made a turn for the worst.

To generalise, it’s bc a child needs both parents

Would you date someone who would never make you a priority in life?

It's "view" as in singular.