Do you use words to hurt someone?

If they start it first I have. 😒 Maybe I should regret it but I don't. I am careful of how I treat people, but if they're not then I refuse to be a door mat for them to wipe their feet.

Im sure i have on occasion....but its something i consciously try not to do. Im a very sensitive person and words cut me deeply. Im always mortified if i say something that causes others hurt.....and beat myself up over it for ages...
I really try my best not to purposefully hurt anyone with words ...even if its something that needs saying. X

I tend not to speak at all when I’m angry or upset. What goes through my head may be truth, but it’s only the ugly side of it because that’s what’s fueling the emotions at the time. I could be shockingly hurtful if I let that loose and it would not make me feel better.

I did recently and so regretted it after . All in the heat of the moment and I lashed out . Sadly was deserved but I still regret it . I let myself down

Never, words carry a lot of responsibilities...words carry a ripple of consequence...I dont have screaming matches and i am careful what words or how I use them. Words can not be retracted once it leaves our mouth even if we dont mean it at the time a seed gets planted in the person. I usually walk away when i know I am at the edge of my angry self. i need to cool off re-collect my thoughts then come back to resolve the matter. How we react or don't react to a situation is the power or the key.

Too many people say the same words...to different ones, not sure how much truth can lay there.

I try very hard not to. I would rather keep my shut than deliberately upset someone.

Some say nothing which hurts more

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