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Is it bad that the girl I like is 14 and I’m almost 18?

So I’m going to be 18 soon and I know it’s illegal to date a minor if they’re more than four years younger and not at least fifteen. But I’m waiting for her (7 months) and she knows it. Is it weird that I like her?
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F Best Comment
I started dating my first bf when I just turned 15 and he was 18. We dated and lived together for 5 years.

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
You like her, it’s fine. No big deal. What goes on in your thoughts might be pervy but liking a person way younger than you is okay.

Be like the Big Brother, Big Sister programs around your city.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie I’m really not like that... Lol
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy If you say so. 😉
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie Oh my goodness. Women! 😝
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flowerboy · 22-25, T
@Greenbare The law says the opposite lol
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flowerboy · 22-25, T
@Greenbare Yeah... I feel like parents should still decide but then again I don’t know if hers would like me. I haven’t even met them
SW-User
No, its normal to be attracted to girls of all ages. You have to be careful because of her age.
So find an older girl for sex until the other comes of age. At your age your hormones are probably already taking over your desires.
SW-User
@flowerboy you are only young once, don't rush into a relationship that you might regret later.
I made that mistake and married young, I thought I knew it all. It didn't take long before I was pregnant and everything changed. Bill's to pay, rent due, baby needs a lot of attention. It all catches up to you and what you thought you had all figured out, has changed.
If its meant for the two if yours to be together, it will be. Don't rush it, don't end up wondering what you ended up missing.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User I plan on taking it slow and not expecting anything of it. I’ve been shown that true love isn’t real and soulmates don’t exist so I don’t believe in that. I believe in real effort to make things work. And I also believe that if we are compatible we’ll know before long.
SW-User
@flowerboy Good luck with everthing, I hope it works out for you. Your young, enjoy it now, before you know it you'll be my age and wondering where the time went
AngelofFail · 26-30, F
as long as you both want it and you have protection just have a good time and enjoy yourselves
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@AngelofFail What do you mean protection? I’m a virgin and plan to stay that way until marriage if that’s what you mean lol
No you just got caught at that weird wasteland of an age. But as long as you wait for her then you are good.
SW-User
Uh, it isn't bad. But I recommend not doing that, lol.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User So I’ve thought about your advice and I decided it sucks. And is irrelevant. Because I’m waiting, you’re making it sound like I’m forcing something on her now. I’m not. I know I’m a good guy, I just needed to practice varying points of view because I think my Mom’s girlfriend is a lot like you.
SW-User
@flowerboy You can wait all you want, man. But you should probably move on with your life. In a few years, you may feel differently.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User I’m not really like other guys. I won’t have a problem with it, really. But I guess if I wait and it does change it wasn’t meant to be. So it’s fine either way.
SW-User
At your current age it might be but in a few years it will be an acceptable age difference
SW-User
@flowerboy Time flies
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User I guess it could if she was still my friend
@flowerboy Just be the best friend she ever had:3
SW-User
mmhhh seems a little odd but hey, its probably not an issue
@flowerboy My parents where 14 and 21. So it happens.
@canusernamebemyusername now that is just beyond weird
@silentkillx2 The parents determined age of consent then. And yes they are still together.
I started at age 14, We were both experimenting at 14, so suppose I was just as irresponsible as she was.
TheProphet · M
Not illegal to date, just to fuck her. Don't get caught.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@TheProphet I would never do that, not unless I married her but that won’t happen for a long time. But I won’t even date her until she’s 15
SW-User
Yeah find one your own age that won't land you in jail.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User I’m waiting for her... I’m not going to be in jail.
Goralski · 51-55, M
Yeah that's pervy
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@Goralski Can you explain why you think so?
Goralski · 51-55, M
@flowerboy something is wrong with a person who can't relate to people his own age...being 14 and 18 it's a huge difference at that time in a person's life
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@Goralski To be fair, you don’t know her or her maturity level at all. She’s a lot more mature than most girls at that age. I thought she was sixteen at first. I’m not saying I’d date her now but I’m waiting for her

 
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