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Should you go after a crush if you’re only trying to form a FWB type of relationship

SW-User
lol. That's pretty freaking selfish hon. If she's a crush, you must like her more than a FWB relationship. And, if you do like her, you're hurting your chances of having something more with her. If it's just lust, and not a crush, recognize it for what it is and act accordingly. Whatever you do, be upfront about what you want so you don't have a psycho on your hands later.
SW-User
@SW-User yeah I’m 22 and really all I want in life is a family get married and have kids. So I don’t really want to mess around with someone I don’t see leading to that. And for all I know she could be the one, but realistically I’m more driven by lust with her than my goals of having a family I don’t know if I need to change my mindset, or if that’s just all I want from her and nothing is going to change. I definitely think going out with her last night would have been a mistake but I thought about her all night.
Zelllambert · 31-35, F
@SW-User I had a relationship with someone I worked with, I wanted to settle with them and then they split saying they only saw us as friends. Yea my time working from that point was awful and I only recovered after they left. Just being in work with him made everyone else feel uncomfortable and I spent most of the time thinking about suicide.
SW-User
@Zelllambert I’m sorry that happened to you. No one should feel that way I’ve had my own problems with that most of myself since before I was a teenager
I don't pretend to understand these new-fangled associations, but wouldn't a crush complicate things?
@SW-User Mmm-hmm. This sounds like an atavistic urge to chase prey because it runs.
SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 all I’m saying is I’m pretty sure she’ll be down with the same thing
@SW-User Then that's a fair deal, as long as both contractual parties know the terms.
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SW-User
@JohnDillinger this is a girl I daydream about hanging out with everyday spending time together, having sex drinking and smoking together
SW-User
Just be open about your intentions and yeah go for it. You'll not know until you try.
yes, but tell them thats all you want
User41 · 36-40, M
Idk what a FWB is
SW-User
@User41 friends with benefits

 
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