Has your spouse ever hurt your feelings ON PURPOSE on multiple occassions?

Yes. AND informed me that he had done it on purpose...and it wasn't just my feelings. We are talking about trips to the emergency room.

Honestly, I’d probably be more angry than sad that they would attempt to do such a thing. I’d fucking destroy him?

Yes. Some just feel more comfortable with that than the vulnerability of kindness.

If I had a spouse like that I would have divorced them a long time ago.

Yes when he used to drink,he did

Yeah

No, he hasn’t done that even when he is mad at me.