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Why do I always do this with dating???? 馃槶

I am 22 years old never been kissed never been on a real date.

I talked to this one guy for weeks last winter and he was so sweet and I faced my fear of going on my first date and just went for it. Thought we would be watching a movie on the couch but we ended up watching the movie on his bed and it was so so uncomfortable. And he was nice but oh my guy his hands and lips kept touching my body and I just felt gross but I froze and waited until the movie was over to leave


I love talking to a guy on dating apps but when they get to the point let鈥檚 go on a date and meet in person I get terrified just really scared to put myself out there. I鈥檓 so freaking scared. So I either block them or make up some lie that I鈥檓 busy this week etc.


What is wrong with me 馃檲馃檲馃檲馃檲
SaraxKay26-30, F
Nothings wrong with you. You just want different things than they want. You'll have someone appear in your life one day that won't make you feel so nervous. It'll feel natural to talk to that person. That'll be love. I felt the same way.
ScarletWitch26-30, F
Ur cute. I didnt have my first kiss until i was 16. It was at a chess tournament. On a roof full of snow. Long story bc we accidentally got locked up there after sneaking away. lolz
kentex35100+, M
@ScarletWitch my dogs got locked up its not the same thing is it? I'm kidding I'm kidding
kentex35100+, M
Nothing is wrong. Be safe . If it doesn't feel right Don't do it. Your time is going to come. Don't rush it. Don't be lazy either lol. Maybe you'll meet one that feels like you do and it's ok to ask him out.
SW-User
aww just be honest and tell them you're nervous! the ones who really wanna see you will understand :)) hopefully they'll help you make baby steps to eventually go on a date
Thats hard to believe. Your so cute
kentex35100+, M
If it makes you feel better I've been stood up more times than a three legged chair. I just started meeting girls inside and like they say everyone looks better at closing time.
ViperM
Sounds sorta like you love the idea of it mentally, but maybe not physically.

At the very least not with that person...
HeyRouben41-45, M
Well, just be aware who your dating, his intentions were other than watching a movie... I guess
Ryanoliver201126-30, M
Idk maybe a self destructive personality? I sort of have one :/
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coolguy1031-35, M
Is this still happening? Sorry for being late to the topic
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Mikelee20M
Can you message me? We can chat about this :)
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Khenpal1M
online dating is not for you.
I guess you'd have to find a nice guy to whom you can [i] explain[/i] your hang ups, who will understand

 
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