I have finally been in a place mentally wise..
Where I am OK single. It's been 4 months things havent worked out with this last guy. I have created profiles on a couple of dating sites and have chatted with a few men on a regular basis however I haven't gone further with that.
However there was this guy I been talking to off and one since I think this January lot February.. He fixed my brakes for me. Someone my sister knows and I used to chat with his brother but never met him. He has tried seeing me since but I am not sure why I haven't really pursued that or I should say why I didn't go out when he asked...i honestly don't know.. Could be several reasons depressed and not up for going out... Work schedule being crazy and not feeling it. I Started seeing someone could be all of them at various times. Well I did meet up with him not long before my mom passed away which was in march and had my sister go with me after all I am quiet and they knew each other for years so they can talk if I don't know what to say lol. I found out at that time his ex lived it him because my sister was asking him about it. Lol probably didnt sit to well with me either felt he was dishonest but previously he did tell me he had a roommate but never said who that roommate was. Also I was not concerned because obviously I wasn't into him but enjoyed chatting on FB messenger
Fast forward to a few weeks ago I start chatting with him again.. I finally say OK to dinner.. He asked to see me the next night for dinner..and then saw him one more time. I decided after conversations between going out to dinner. And the interest showed in me from pretty well day one back in the beginning of this year. I was there one that did the back n forth all along and even during this time around and I tried explaining stuff in text messaging and it's got all screwed up. Anyways how it started was me asking in text what he wanted with me.. And I admitted that I was chatting with other men and that unwanted to be honest
Well he comes back with a real you gonna stop talking to these other guys.
I admit I wasn't happy he didn't answer my question cause I won't quit talking to other guys til I know what's up with him and i. And he told me hos answer depended on my answer to his question. So it got all screwed up and now we aren't talking. I mean wow. I get things. But I was trying to communicate and share my thoughts and he called it drama and I don't know what I want and he said seems your not ready for a relationship.
IDK I tried explaining further but now he won't talk to me at all so I told him finally that I prob won't talk to him again.
I was trying to be careful and this is exactly why!
However there was this guy I been talking to off and one since I think this January lot February.. He fixed my brakes for me. Someone my sister knows and I used to chat with his brother but never met him. He has tried seeing me since but I am not sure why I haven't really pursued that or I should say why I didn't go out when he asked...i honestly don't know.. Could be several reasons depressed and not up for going out... Work schedule being crazy and not feeling it. I Started seeing someone could be all of them at various times. Well I did meet up with him not long before my mom passed away which was in march and had my sister go with me after all I am quiet and they knew each other for years so they can talk if I don't know what to say lol. I found out at that time his ex lived it him because my sister was asking him about it. Lol probably didnt sit to well with me either felt he was dishonest but previously he did tell me he had a roommate but never said who that roommate was. Also I was not concerned because obviously I wasn't into him but enjoyed chatting on FB messenger
Fast forward to a few weeks ago I start chatting with him again.. I finally say OK to dinner.. He asked to see me the next night for dinner..and then saw him one more time. I decided after conversations between going out to dinner. And the interest showed in me from pretty well day one back in the beginning of this year. I was there one that did the back n forth all along and even during this time around and I tried explaining stuff in text messaging and it's got all screwed up. Anyways how it started was me asking in text what he wanted with me.. And I admitted that I was chatting with other men and that unwanted to be honest
Well he comes back with a real you gonna stop talking to these other guys.
I admit I wasn't happy he didn't answer my question cause I won't quit talking to other guys til I know what's up with him and i. And he told me hos answer depended on my answer to his question. So it got all screwed up and now we aren't talking. I mean wow. I get things. But I was trying to communicate and share my thoughts and he called it drama and I don't know what I want and he said seems your not ready for a relationship.
IDK I tried explaining further but now he won't talk to me at all so I told him finally that I prob won't talk to him again.
I was trying to be careful and this is exactly why!
46-50, F
