Love is illusive .

There's givers and takers. Devoters and fakers. Half self decievers and ungrateful recievers.

To some extent it is illusion like, probably, in the course of each person's experiences.

One will one won't seems to be the standard.

Sure why not. Although i would say love is a bottle of scotch and a deep dish pizza

Do you mean like elusive or illusory? I can't tell.

It's when one is self centered...